How do I keep a girl from thinking I'm a loser when I have

>>17670865
Take up some interesting hobbies. Learn to play an instrument, get into something like photography or literature. Show her that you are passionate and dedicated about something.

starting hitting the gym

when she asks what you're doing this friday, say working out

people respect that

>>17670873
>Learn to play an instrument
Those can take years to become proficient with

>>17670904
You don't need to be 100% proficient. Just develop some type of hobby or skill and make your life a bit more interesting.

>>17670924
I've tried learning how to play piano, bass guitar, harmonica, and turntables.

The most I can do is play one-handed tunes on the piano, and "Smoke on the Water" on the guitar.

>>17670938
Not OP