>be best friend with guy whom I probably will be for life

>>17670579
Sounds like he means more to you than you do to him. If you think you're acting clingy anon then that could be a reason he's putting you behind other plans. Do you have other friends you go out with or is he the main one?

You're upset that he does things sometimes without telling you? Yes, that is too clingy. That's clingy even for boyfriends/girlfriends. Why should he tell you that he's going to a music festival? Why does he owe you this information?

You're way too clingy. The idea that a friend should tell you everything they're doing every weekend is ridiculous. Where did you get that idea from?

>>17670589
He's the main one. We used to live together too, so I'm sure I'm at least one of his closest friends.

>>17670593
>>17670595
Because we had plans. Otherwise I wouldn't be bothered

>>17670604
Ah, your question made it seem like you just asked him to go, not that you had pre-made plans with him. Doesn't sound like it's a big deal if it only happens rarely, but if he routinely cancels plans with you, that's kinda shitty.

>>17670613
He does, in a way. It's more like we're close enough that hanging out on weekends is implied, but he never tells me if he's no longer free. He's also a "shitty texter" to the point where it's a pleasant surprises if he replies at all.

>>17670615
Lol, you're doing it again...if hanging out is just implied because you usually hanging out, it's not a problem if he makes plans and doesn't tell you. You're asking that he should always tell you what he's doing in case you want to hang out with him then. That's weird.

>>17670613
This.
>>17670615
>we're close enough that hanging out on weekends is implied
It seems that he doesn't think so.

My advice is: Find some things to do that don't involve him. Relying on him to keep you occupied is unreliable and not working for you.

>>17670622
This particular case we did have solid plans, not implied. Like I said it may bother me a little on other occasions, but I know in that case I'm just being irrational.

>>17670625
Yeah, sounds like it. I'm gradually trying to hang out with him less for that reason