>German exchange program >stay at girl's house >get

>>17667953
/adv/* apologies, I usually post things like this on /b/

>>17667953
Fuck you should've studied for the exam. LDR is a meme that will never work, it requires superhuman tolerance and faith, people will always get tired of it and break it apart. Find another girl that you can see each other everyday, don't fool your brain into thinking she's the one, the soulmate. She's just another girl, trust me it happened before

>>17668057
I'm not going for a LDR, I know those suck and never work.

The last girlfriend I thought I "loved" I had 2 years ago. It takes me a long time to find this kind of relationship, and so maybe you can see why I don't want to just say "fuck it."

I know a LDR will crash and burn like it did with the other guy she met. I want to maintain minimum contact, keep our familiarity alive, so that when/if I see her again we aren't strangers and I can rekindle what we once had.

Is that wrong?

>>17668118
Sorry, I might've misinterpreted. I thought you wanted an LDR, instead of just leaving that option of something going on open, then in that case take her whatsapp and chat with her, make sure you 2 are just friends. Because in case if you find someone you love locally or she thinks you found someone you love locally, she'll be pissed and there'll be problems.

>>17667953
>holding her in bed at 4am
lol

>>17668130
Alright, I'll continue as normal then.

>>17668153
you gay?

>>17667953
You're such a goddamn faggot, holy shit.

>>17668176
yeah being intimate sleeping with your girl is gay

>>17668176
>someone going through an emotional phase
>best reply you could think of is calling him a faggot
nice

>>17668156
Nah nigga, I value sleep over fee-fee's any day of the week

>>17668181
>>17668197
They didnt even fuck, >>17668176 is right, hes a mega faggot for not making a move.

>>17668453
I did make moves you stupid cunt. I didn't just sit there in bed with her. But I'm not writing a literotica, I was writing for advice, so you can fuck right off to pornhub if you wanted me to write about the explicit shit we did.

>>17668449
Yeah okay, if you value sleep over playing with a hot German girl in bed you're a faggot

mfw the girl in OP used to be a male
ergo OP is a faggot
QED

>>17668118

Bro I know exactly how you feel, and I sympathise, Ive had the exact same thought process, and yeah its wrong

You just have to move on. It sucks, it hurts, you know you could probably find someone else but you dont want to, but at the end of the day:

Proximity is the number one catalyst for people finding love and breaking up

You got people feeling like they're with their one true love and their destined together. And they just happened to live in the same city their whole life.

You know the number one place people meet their partner? Work. Why? Because they're there 5 days a week.

Love isnt some mystical force. Its just a term used to describe the state you're in when you've made a connection with someone

You dont just have to love one person. You are always able to love someone else

>>17668543
You're 100% right man, except for
>you know you could probably find someone else but you dont want to

I don't know if I could find someone else. It took me 2 years to find this girl, and that's only because she was handed to me on a silver platter (was put in my house on exchange).

I know this love isn't unique, but if I see this girl again, which I very well may in 1-2 years (study abroad programs), I want to be able to love her again like we used to.

If the best way to make that happen is to maintain minimal contact, that's what I'll do.

If I knew for a fact this girl would love me forever, and we'd stay together, nothing would stop me from packing my shit and moving to Germany for her. But I won't because I can't leave my life and have it end up not working.

>>17667953
It's your first exchange student crush.

Now when the next one comes to stay play the same cards but with more confidence and urgency.

I've bedded three out of five of the female exchange students that stayed at my parents when I still lived there.

>>17668561

You're closing yourself off to the rest of the world of girls my man. You should focus less on this girl and more on you. Get yourself out there more and meeting more people

Finding love is a numbers game.
In the same way when you walk into a club, at least ONE girl in the club will fuck you

When you walk out into the world, at least one girl you meet can and will love you. You just gotta keep trying until you find her

As I said, its all a numbers game. And getting oneitis is the opposite to an effective approach here

>>17668572
You're right, and I do have oneitis over this girl, but I'm not going to close myself off.

I'm still on the prowl, I've been chatting up 4 different girls. I know we'll both get in relationships apart from each other.

All I need to know is what to do with this girl to keep things alive, so that if I meet her again in 2 years she won't be a stranger to me. I want to be able to see her in 2 years and give her a big hug, and kiss, with a hope to rekindle the fire.

I won't obsess about her for 2 years and ignore other girls. I just want to keep the girl I loved (and still love) as a prospect.

>>17668461
My bad, I thought you were a beta faggot.

Turns out your an insecure beta faggot, you didnt say shit in your "story" just that you held her etc

>>17668706
Wow, you are a special kind of stupid. I know I didn't share anything about what we did in my story. I don't tell personal shit like that to random strangers, especially your dumbass.