i'll just lay it all down simple. inb4 never date co-workers.

I haven't spoken much to him since then, and i called it all off because I really don't know who to listen to here. A couple of his close friends at work have told me that they didn't know he had a girlfriend at all (one of them had told me that this "girlfriend" had been crazy for him, and has been sabotoging anything with any girl he meets. So much that it's driving him to quit that job all together to get away from her.)
Other things that she had told me was that he tells her that I'm crazy, and I'm always trying with him.
Despite all that she's told me, Vaquero still tells me that she isn't his girlfriend. He tells me that she isn't what she seems.

This happened a week ago, but i'm still disappointed with how it all ended. I already got upset with him, but I ended up telling him that we should just keep things professional at work, even though I'm still disappointed, and just strictly be friends.

I still miss talking to him and I was excited to start going out with him though, and I did enjoy what we had, but I don't know who to believe, or what I should do.

>>17667375

You move on. This is the heavens giving you a sign to not date coworkers. I know I know you don't want to hear that but in all honesty nothing good comes of it.

Keep things professional with the guy and find another man in the mean time.

>>17667382

It gets difficult sometimes because we both have said we're going to move on from the issue, but still, he offers to make me something from the kitchen every shift I see him (he's a pantry chef at work, I'm a server) and still asks if I'm okay.
I don't really like him to make me anything, because I don't want anything from him.

Or he could be a serial cheater and he keeps begging her not to leave him. He sounds like bad news. I'd get the girlfriend to give you more information. Guy I worked with lead me on for months saying that the woman who picks him up sometimes is a friend only to find out after a date that it was his long term girlfriend. I agreed to meet with her and she showed me all their pictures and messages dating to that very day. Get more information from the girl.

>>17668167

i'm too tired to keep talking to any of them, really. i'm hearing things from both sides.
his side is that they did date a while back, but that's all it was. she's acting really crazy and that she tells every girl he talks with that she's his girlfriend.
her side is that everything he tells me is what he says about me, to her.

she's even asked me to take him out on a date to a place where she could "accidentally run into us" so she could confront him. i didn't go through with it, because it all sounds really childish. why should i prove myself to him that i'm just as sneaky (as he is) or as conniving (as she is).
I think anon right me right in previous advice and to just move on.

>>17668167
all the while, i really just want to secretly meet with him in the back storage sometime and just get it out of my system. but i'm pretty sure that won't end well either.

>>17667363
Ask him, What are we?

Also, tell him that girl messaged you

If hes dismissive, says shes "no one" and "Theres only you" just move on.