Is there any way to artificially up a woman's sex drive?

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>>17666763
Yeah, it's called cash

>>17666763
show her your bank statement

>>17666763
The pill.

Any drugs packed with lady hormones

Flibanserin brand name Addyi

Women taking the drug reported around one more sexually satisfying event a month

>>17666805
>>17666824
I am a girl. I have 50 000 euros on my investment portfolio and 10 000 on a savings account. I still don't masturbate.

>>17666827
Anything that DOESN'T have estrogen in it? I don't want estrogen in my system.

>>17666841
I'll see if there's a way to get that legally here.

Do you have a fetish?

Can someone please explain to me why I have to upload a file just to post a message.

>>17667046
You mean as OP? It's an imageboard.

>>17667040
How do I tell?

>>17667046
If you're making your own thread, you need a picture. You don't need one to respond to someone else's.

>>17667092
When an object, body part or action itself is enough to make you horny, regardless of the person or situation involved. Like feet fags that even in a totally non-sexual circumstance or if the girl is ugly will still get their dicks hard. Maybe you don't have one or you still have to figure out yours.

>>17667121
Oh.

How do you know if you're horny?

>>17667123
You don't know how your body reacts when you're horny?

>>17667131
Am I supposed to?

If it's one of those things that you "just KNOW", I never know those things.

>>17667144
Well, I guess so, if you find something sexually appealing you feel it. How old are you?

>>17667162
I'm 22.

Have you tried watching different kinds of porn to find something you find exciting? I'm baffled.

>>17667181
I've tried. It's all very boring to me. Once you've seen one clip you've seen them all.

>>17666763
You are more likely to find the Holy Grail than find this.

Make more money, flirt with women in front of her

viagra works similarly on women as it does on men

>>17667250
What it cures their erectile dysfunction?
Does their clit fully develop into s penis?

>>17667250
Seriously? It actually works like that?

>>17666827
Birth control kills a woman's sex drive fag.
Don't take bc unless you want to have even less sex. Try weed. It definitely works for me and the sex feels better

>>17667273
Just makes blood flow down there.

>>17667260
The clit does not develop into a penis.

The clitoris and the penis are both composed of pockets of tissue like a sponge, that fill up with blood in order to become erect. It's much the same way as plants. When there's enough water (blood) in the plant, it stands up because the pockets are pushing against each other. When the plant starts running out of water (or the blood is diverted away), the pockets deflate and it can't hold itself up anymore.

Fun fact, viagra also works on plants.

>>17667696
Weed makes me scared and paranoid.

>>17667727
So if you're not turned on to begin with, it won't make you horny?

>>17667740
But it doesn't actually make sex easier?

>>17668578
Has nothing ever made you remotely feel good? Does seeing an attractive guy (or girl) do nothing for you? When you shower haven't you ever felt curious about letting the shower head work your pussy a bit more?

>>17668621
Being drunk, being hugged and mudcake ice cream make me feel good.

And no. Washing my cunt is about as interesting as washing my hair, except that I don't need to bother with a conditioner.

>>17668628
Do you even feel any attraction to guys (or girls) in a non-sexual manner? Ever felt like wanting to cuddle? To kiss?

Have you considered that you may be asexual? If you are asexual and accept it as who you are despite what societal rules want you to be, you should be alright.

>>17668635
I've had crushes on boys and wanted to hug them. It's the sex part that makes me feel like I'm handling a venomous snake.

>>17668639
But I want a boyfriend.

>>17668645
>But I want a boyfriend
Romantic attraction is not the same as sexual attraction.

>>17668645
It's possible for asexual people to still want romance. Just without the sex part. Not saying you are asexual, but it's not impossible either.

Maybe you just are attracted to a very specific type of person and haven't met one like that yet. The moment you do your juices start flowing.

>>17668645
Asexual girls can have boyfriends. Read up about it. I am not saying give up on being sexual. But if nothing you try works (including seeing a doctor about it) then you should consider the possibility. Read up on it. Get educated about it.

>>17668648
That's just terrible.

>>17668651
Isn't there anything I can do about it? Force the sex drive to start working?

>>17668653
You could try seeing a doctor about it, it's possible that you have something unrelated that is killing your sex drive. Are you taking any medications?

And for the mental part, maybe you can find something that interests you. Scroll through lists of fetishes and porn catalogs. Maybe something will catch your interest. Then dig deeper into it.

>>17668657
I'm on two different antidepressants and antabus, but I've only been on medications for a few months and this problem has lasted for years.

The only fetish that I find even mildly interesting is feedism, but after a long meditation and pondering, I've found that even that isn't really sexual. I judt find fat boys cute.

>>17668663
Well, that's a start. Tried looking at /soc/ ? There are threads for husky/fat men. Take a look at them and maybe you will find someone you think is attractive.

Out of curiosity, ever tried dating sites or tinder?

>>17668723
Yes. I still don't like the thought of sex.

I struggled with my sexuality for a long time. I could go into my history, but I don't really want to hijack the thread.
One suggestion I'd have is to get a vibrator, particularly one with adjustable strength. Practice squeezing an orgasm out of yourself.

>>17668829
I have, and I've tried. No use.

Clitoris, g-spot, u-spot, no nothing.

>>17666841
Lol don't do this
It literally doesn't work and has shit side effects

>>17668853
My ex-gf put an end to our relationship because her sex drive is very low, while mine is quite high. It didn't start out like that though. In the beginning of our relationship she kinda "opened up" to sex, began enjoying it a lot with me, but quickly tapered off. In the span of just a few months we went from daily sex to once every two weeks at most.

It could be that she hadn't sexually discovered herself completely yet, but we both believe that she simply has a very low sex drive. And even though I was able to "awaken" her, it quickly ebbed away again.

What I suspect is that you are in a similar situation. No matter what kind of trick you use to give yourself sexual lust, it will disappear.

My advice to you is simple, but not easy: find yourself a guy who is genuinely not interested in sex. Many men might claim to not need it, but they hope to coax you into it anyway. Even if they don't plan to, they're very likely to end up pushing sex (I know I did). There's very few guys who are really not interested in sex, but they're out there.

A relationship is much more than just sex. I've had little sex in my relationship and I was still heartbroken when it ended (because of living far apart).

>>17666990
It doesn't work, one more satisfying sexual experience per month is not worth fainting spells

>>17668913
Is there any way to make putting out easier?

I have a hard time just "opening up", not actively fighting back or running away is the best I can do, and even then I'll just freeze and he'll have to push me down and pry my legs open and stuff.

I once pulled a muscle in my inner thigh when my ex tried to pull them open and I couldn't get myself to stop pressing my knees together.

>>17669024
When I said that she opened up, I meant that she was actually into it and liked the sex and would initiate. You seem to have to actually "put up" with it. Don't do this. From what we all can tell, you'll never have a normal or even small sex drive. You should be up front with any guy you hook up that you never want sex, ever. You're just unable to enjoy it at all. Completely frigid. Make sure they understand. Make sure you understand that yourself.

I'm afraid there isn't any way to make you like sex. Perhaps one day accidentally you'll find something you're into, but I wouldn't count on it.

>>17669043
Then what can I do?

I still want to be loved, but I don't think I can stomach being a domestic slave.

>>17669068
There's so much more to being loved than sex. Seriously.

My relationship was sexless for the last half year and we loved each other a lot and had a lot of fun.
We still cuddled.
We still looked each other in the eyes starstruck.
We still were fine with being the only two people in the world.

We were still deeply in love, despite her nearly non-existent sexual appetite.

Just find someone who doesn't need sex as well. This is important. If they still feel a sexual urge, it'll eventually become too much. Find someone who literally hasn't masturbated in months.

>>17669076
How?

Why would he want me?

>>17669081
Because people look for more than sex in others. Even I, with a sex drive, would happily give it up for the rest of my life if that meant being together with my exgf (now best friend).

People look for warmth in others, for trust, for someone they can see every day and never tire of.

It seems you've been led to believe that men only desire sex from women, which is so fundamentally wrong it's almost funny if it weren't sad. True, some men want only sex. Indeed, most of the rest of the men need sex to some degree in their relationship (just like they need conversation, trust, other intimacy, and a whole slew of other things). But there's also people for whom sex genuinely doesn't matter, both mentally as physically.

You'll find someone out there who wants to be with you because he's attracted to your character, to your interests, to your own special little characteristics, to how you look at him, to how warm it feels when you hug him...

Love is beautiful, even without sex.

Wellbutrin is an antidepressant that has a known side effect of upping sex drive.
Wellbutrin is used for patients who have the kind of depression where they are feeling down, not as much with people who have the kind where your thoughts are constantly racing.

Wellbutrin is also used for weight loss, quitting smoking, and for other reasons.

It is possible that Wellbutrin works not by actually increasing anything hormonally but by increasing energy/interest in sex.

When I first started taking it, I was constantly horny, but that is just an example.

>>17669093
All of that is too rare to begin with.

>>17669109
I'll have to see if I can legally get it in any way in my country.

>>17669114
Which country are you from?

Nah, people have sexless relationships all the time. I'm sure my parents haven't had sex in at least 10 years and they still love each other. I think you've just been misled by media portrayal of what sex and relationships really are.

As people get older, they also attach a lot more value to companionship than sex.

>>17669128
Finland.

And I don't like older men.

>>17669114
You need a prescription from a psychiatrist or other doctor

>>17669136
I'm already on voxra. How do I trick my psychiatrist into thinking it was his idea to change it?

>>17669134
I was more saying that as a consolation that if you don't find someone now, you might later in life. (Besides most old men that are attracted to young women do it for sex)

But I can see how finding someone could be hard in Finland. I've been there, so I know you're not a very sociable lot.

>>17669138
Actually those are the same thing.....
Both are brands of bupropion.

What is your dose?

>>17666763
Yes, testosterone is often prescribed to women to treat low libido. Get her to talk to her primary care physician for a prescription.

>>17669147
I can't remember, but it's just one pill. So like 25 mg?

>>17669152
Hm. You should look and see. I was under the impression the lowest dose was 150mg.

Do you have depression? Are you on any other meds? Sometimes low libido is a side effect of medicines.

For example: when my doctor was trying to find the right drugs for me, she put me on duloxetine (this is an SNRI). This medicine KILLED my libido. Like, I dried up and never touched my clit once the entire time I was on it.

>>17669093
>Even I, with a sex drive, would happily give it up for the rest of my life if that meant being together with my exgf

yeah, nah dude. You say this because you haven't been in a sexless marriage for the past ten years. Trust me, you'll start to question if you even love her when she constantly refuses to fuck you no matter how well you get along.

>>17666990
It doesn't work if it's your own cash, silly.

>>17669160
But that was more to illustrate that love and desire exist also without the expectation of sex.

Because I have a sexual appetite it would of course eventually consume me, but I have willingness to undergo it because I love her anyway.

>>17669158
I've had depression forever, but I've only been on antidepressants for some months.

>>17669160
What if she'd put out despite of not wanting it? Would you console her once it's over or just get mad at her for crying?

>>17669093
t. kissless virgin who has watched too many Disney movies.

>>17669173
Personally, I'd feel like a piece of shit for making her have sex with me despite me not liking it.

Honestly, if you have little success finding an asexual guy, you might need to consider an open relationship where the guy has affairs to satisfy his sexual desires. I'm not an expert on these types of relationships though.

>>17669134
>Finland
Yesssssss
>I don't like older men
Damn.....

>>17669173
I think you have to give the doctor a chance to help you find the right balance of antidepressants. Some will more strongly affect one person than another. You will be able to tell after about a month how things are going.
Bupropion is commonly picked because it does not decrease libido, like some medicines do.

Decreased libido is a serious side effect of some medicines and you should be discussing this with the doctor. If the doctor isn't aware of the issue, they can't help you.

>>17669198
But I've literally never HAD a libido.

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>Is there any way to artificially up a woman's sex drive? Some kind of a medication you could legally get from a drugstore?
Both Testosterone and Estrogen up sex drive and sex appeal massively

>>17666763
>>17668815

You guys are idiots. She hasn't had sex and for whatever mental acrobatic reason she's mentally concluded that sex is gross or a bad thing.

I'm almost certain OP is a virgin.

Have sex. Stop being crazy.

>Wellbutrion
Dase it mane. I'm on that stuff helps my depression and I was actually able to get off for the first time in my life because I was on shitty SSRIs before it. One of the best things to ever happened to me

>>17669207
Can you go to an Endocrinologist? This sounds like a hormonal problem. They would have all of the answers you need...like do you have low testoserone?

>>17669224
I'm not a virgin. I've had sex with numerous different men and looking back I don't even know how I've endured it.

>>17669231
Is that something that would be covered by universal health care? How do I prove it's a problem that hinders my life?

>>17669242
>I'm not a virgin. I've had sex with numerous different men and looking back I don't even know how I've endured it.
With both sexes?

No idea then, probably asexuality. Get your sex hormone levels tested and you'll know for sure.

Try psychedelic drugs like 2C-B, not legal but definitely arousing

>>17669251
I've wished so many times that I could be into girls but I'm not.

>>17669242
Not having a libido infers a hormonal imbalance. Hormonal balances are important for overall health. I am pretty sure they have these doctors in your country because these doctors treat diabetics.

A hornonal imbalance can have an impact on heart health and can make you more likely to get heart disease.

You should get checked out.

>>17669497
So can I just walk into a hospital saying "I think I have some hormonal balance (with no proof), can I have it tested?"

>>17666763
maybe gelitinized maca powder

>>17669510
Depends where you are, in the Uk you can, yes. If not, blood test for sex hormones.

As I said previously, testosterone and estrogen both massively increase sex drive. Thyroid is also linked to sex drive quite strongly.

>>17669594
Is there any way I can increase my testosterone legally at home? I don't want estrogen.

>>17669598
Yes, by taking testosterone.
>I don't want estrogen.
If you're a girl that's retarded, you should absolutely take more estrogen than testosterone.

All of this depends upon sex hormone test results though.

>>17669598
I don't think you should self-medicate. You need to talk to a doctor. You need blood tests.

Do you have a primary care physician? Can you see them regarding the libido issue and they refer you to a specialist.

>>17669609
I don't want estrogen. It's a gross poison that makes you fat and crazy.

>>17669625
It's a hormone that's integral to healthy sex and development in both men and women. Stop being batshit insane.

Get off the pill. Try MDMA?

>>17669641
I don't want any more estrogen.

>>17669782
Then you clearly already know your sex hormone levels and it's a non issue.