I have a female friend that I'm really attracted to. But I've always tried not to get too close, because she had a boyfriend and so obviously I didn't want to make things weird by expressing any desire for her. I just found out a couple of days ago that apparently her boyfriend dumped her like 3 weeks ago and I just never heard about it. So when I heard the first thought that popped into my head was "oh holy fuck I have a chance now." The question is: how do I not fuck this up and get friend zoned or worse? A big part of the problem is that I'm a kissless virgin with literally zero relationship experience, so I have no idea what I'm doing or how to proceed.
Help me, /adv/, you're my only hope.
>>17661746
best learn to read body language br0. If it's all good do whatever is natural. What do you enjoy about her? Hanging out? Go do something you both enjoy. Talking? Take on intimate date. boobies/vajay jay? Solicit secks.
but what do I know, also kissless virgin.
are you okay being a rebound fuck?
>>17661769
Speaking of taking her on dates, how do I do that? I guess I should mention the only time I get to see her is at a mutual friend's house who always has a bunch of peeps over on Saturdays for hanging out/vidya games/etc. How do I ask her to hang out outside of that without being a complete derp?
>>17661801
probably
>>17661881
ask her to do something friendly. either coffee/dinner, or some activity of common interest. if she declines or evades the question, she's not interested.
Just take the chance and ask her out. Might go bad. But if you don't, soon she'll be dating someone else and you will regret not doing anything when you had the clean opportunity.
It's a good thing that she broke up a while back, if you were too quick to ask her out after her break up it probably wouldn't have worked in your favor. I would try getting her number the next time your friend has everyone together. Tell her how you think she's really interesting and want to get to know her more and ask for her number. From there I can set a one on one date to get coffee or lunch. good luck man.