I think I actively seek out acceptance by women.
I am a 23 year old male, dated several times.
I had an issue with opening up or venting on them too much, and I realized a lot of things. I wasn't really in a relationship, I just sought out a mutual relationship that might have started out as a real one, but in the end it just devolved into me venting and then seeking sex, just for pleasure.
I'm kind of horrified by myself. I was able to step back and look at what I was doing to all those girls, and I realized that other than those needs for a girl to 'mommy' me, I wouldn't really need to be in a relationship at all.
In fact I might be asexual without those weird needs now.
It probably has a lot to do with me looking up to my mom but she always finding things wrong with me growing up. Always pushing me to do harder but never really appreciating things I did do.
Idk. Am I my own man now?
>am i my own man now?
man if you're 23 and asking a chinese meme sharing community that question, probably not.
>>17658641
its japnse
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>I treat people like emotional tampons
It's seriously easy to find women who do the same shit.
I THINK that's what you wanted advice on.
>>17658610
Find a girl who wants to mommy you.
>I think I actively seek out acceptance by women.
You do need acceptance from some form of community though, so I wouldn't go down the route of "I read about Freud and now I'm a really bad person with all these dark tendencies.", just take it easy and be single for a while.
You're not really "your own man" now, you're just yourself. I tend to get in relationships that burn out quite quickly, because I seem to enjoy feeling trapped or something stupid like that.
Just take it easy, take time for yourself. I suppose the best advice is not to think about love/relationships for a while.
>>17658610
you want a mother not a gf.