Hi all, > started living together with gf since 3 months

>>17657603
Dump her.
It isn't going to get better.

>>17657612
Is that from experience? I am truly considering it, but I have to feeling that every relationship becomes as this one

>>17657616
No.
I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, 7 of which living together, and today we had sex three times.
Can't sit next to him without being turned on.
It mitigated in time, but I still get horny for him.
If you have no attraction for her whatsoever, dump her.

>would completely devastate her

...for a few months... after that she will find someone more compatible for her

>>17657622
Yes, I guess you're right. Thanks for your advice. Would like to hear some more opinions though.

>>17657629
True, eventually she'll get over it, I just gotta find the courage to end it then, according to your statement.

Any more people who have suggestions?

Ask yourself if you value sex over a stable relationship

imo get your priorities straight and stay with the girl

>>17657814
Spoken like a true asexual.

It would be devastating for this girl to find out further down the track that he had not been sexually attracted to her for sometime. Jesus, use some common sense.

Leave her now OP, the longer you delay it the more damage you're doing to her in the long run.

>>17657814
So, would you stay in a relationship where you trust each other, but you feel no affection for the other person at all?

>>17657831

Thats the secret to having a long-lasting marriage, anon.

dont do it

>>17657847
That's the secret for a sexless marriage where the wife fucks the gardener and the husband fucks the secretary.

>>17657847
that's what i've been questioning.. I mean, isn't that just a wrong relationship then?

I must add: our relationship is just 3 y.o. so it hardly seems that it should be like this already