call me a dumbass but i feel really uneasy about this situation...

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>one night stand
That alone should tell you to be prepared if it doesn't work out

>>17656435
I say go for it, catch feelings and see where it goes
That being said, don't give her complete power over you but if nothing else, it'll be a good experience; you'll gain more wisdom and knowledge even if doesn't work out

>>17656461
Thanks.. My thoughts have been kinda all over the place lately, but the fear of the little thing she said, maybe was a hint that she didn't want to go any further, still torments my fragile brain

>>17656469
No problem
And think about it this way; perhaps you're so focused on the negative that you're forgetting the positive.. maybe you're just being paranoid or overthinking things; at any rate, the only way you'll ever know is by finding out

>>17656476
Can't argue with that.. thank you man, i really appreciate it

>>17656477
You're very welcome bro, I wish you The best

>Tfw gave girl complete power over me and our "relationship"

Don't do it. Don't ever give 100%

>>17656538
what do you mean by giving her complete power??

>>17656550
>>17656538
And what was the outcome, if you're willing to share your story

>>17656550
I was dumb. We were talking for about eight months and I got too clingy. I fell for her really hard. She really really liked me in the beginning and I think that is what threw me off. Towards the end of us talking she started to get more and more distant and eventually started to ignore me. I got pretty crazy and double and triple texted her after she wouldn't respond. After she finally answered me I asked her why she was ignoring me so much and she said that I don't own her and that I romanticized things. which makes sense in hindsight now. I know why she thought that and I really did romanticized things.

I gave her a complete power over our relationship. I gave 100% in the beginning and I think that scared her off. I really regret it and I'm still not over it, it's been a month and she is the only girl that I have had such strong feelings for that I literally prayed to God that it would work.

I miss her but it's my own damn fault. I know now what to do and what not to do. Don't make the same mistake as me and give 100% in the beginning don't let her have that kind of power over you. Women can smell weakness and if they do they will lose all respect for you.

I miss her.

>>17656469
damn, I know you had no control but already catching the feels puts you at a major disadvantage and makes you desperate to lock her down when she just isn't at the same place as you (normal I hope you realize). Anyway she told you she doesn't fall in love instantly because it is the truth. She's using her head and not losing it like you have

>>17656581
>I got too clingy
that is a huge red flag boy or girl

>>17656635
Yeah.

It was my first time I ever fell hard for a girl, so I wasn't sure how to control my emotions.

I wish I could get her back. Now I know what I did wrong, and we had such great chemistry familia. I messed up something that I'm gonna regret for a long time.

>>17656618
Can i just calm down a little? If i can manage to use my head just a little, is there any chance of me still making her fall in love with me as well. She has already proven that she likes me a little bit. She asked me out about 2/3 times when we planned to hang out. She is also pretty active with starting conversations and keeping them going