How can a girl be good in bed? Are there any kind of advice things

Grab him by the pussy

>>17654910
Learn how to ride a dick, how to jerk a dick and how to suck one.

>>17654924
What's there to learn? It seems like pretty simple stuff.

>>17654927
Well if whoever you fuck compliments you on any of those then you're good to go.
What do you want some kind of mystic legendary secret to taking a dick?

>>17654924
This

>>17654931
I'm ugly and don't have much else to offer.

>>17654910
Don't sit there like a potatoe, move your hips around, moan in pleasure but dont go fucking crazy and scream and don't fake it. Listen for the little things, like if he moans after you do something, keep it going. I know people like to say ask your partner this and that, but I find it sexier if the girl experiments with me to find my kinks and goes off of that.

>>17654935
Well if you're ugly then don't be a whale and see >>17654924

>>17654938
So moaning, but genuinely? What's the difference between doing it deliberately and faking it?

But otherwise, it's not that different from riding a strange horse or petting a dog you don't know well? Seeing what works, what he reacts to?

>>17654941
I'm about 120 lbs, trying to get to 110.

>>17654957
>What's the difference between doing it deliberately and faking it?
Genuinely liking it, usually.

>>17654980
What if I don't?

Deepthroat and swallow.
It feels better than sex and it's fucking hot.

>>17654935
Dicks doesn't have eyes.
Looks are not extremely important for being a good lay.

>>17655073
I don't have a gag reflex but I stil start hacking if something hits there. Is there anything to do to help that?

>>17655063
You don't need to fake anything. Just let your man know he's not doing it right.

>>17654910
I'm assuming that we're talking about a girl being good in bed for a guy, 1-on-1 and straight sex.

Read.
Read factual, scientific stuff about the erogenous zones of men and studies of male sexuality.
Read anecdotal stories on how to pleasure guys
Read stuff on how to exercise yourself to be able to pull off (pun not intended) some of the tricks you'll read about.
Read textual pornography. Good stuff, not the fanfic tripe. There's a lot of really good descriptions that you can actually learn from (take with grains of salt tho)
Read about sexual communication. This is very important. Good sex is mutually fulfilling, but requires good communication. Good sexual communication isn't (usually) sitting down for an in-depth conversation either.

>>17655083
Well, I don't see the point of complaining if there's no way to do it right, but I guess that's something men would prefer not to know.

>>17655087
Can you recommend anything?

>>17655080
>I stil start hacking if something hits there.
That's fine as long as you don't throw up all over the bed (although, making a bit of a mess can be hot sometimes too)

>>17655093
Not directly. Has been a while.

Literotica has some gold on it (and some absolute rubbish too)

Hit up a local library or better yet a uni library for the nonfictional stuff. Really depends on what's on the shelf. Having a really good grasp of anatomy helps too, so ensure you're up on that. Sexual psychology is handy too. Old classics like Kama Sutra are good too - not for the specifics but for what they tell you about what works and what doesn't. Don't try to copy random sutra positions, it rarely works first time, is quite cringey, and its not really the point.

The self-help market is full of rubbish, avoid like the plague

You're gonna have to find the stuff you're interested in learning (specifically) and the kind of material you can actually learn from, which is very personal.

>>17655080
That's pretty much a gag reflex :)

>>17655093
Well you learn from each other. What each other likes and doesn't like over time. You can go by examples from porn or books if you need ideas I guess.

>>17655104
So coughing and dry-heaving isn't necessarily a turn-off?

>>17655105
Alright. I'll see what the local library has concerning that.

>>17655111
Then why can't I make myself vomit by sticking a toothbrush up there?

>>17655112
So there's not much of a chance of general education, being universally good at sex?

>>17655121
You can be above average, but that usually comes with practice over time.

>>17655117
>So coughing and dry-heaving isn't necessarily a turn-off?
Everyone does this, it's fine. Noone expects you to be a robot.

Guys in general will probably find it charming that you're going through all this trouble just to please them.

>>17655140
I don't want to embarrass myself.

>>17655121
> Why can't I make myself vomit
Because as a reflex it varies in strength and specific results.

>>17655182
So my throat goes by the same murphy's law -principle as the rest of my face.

>>17655232
Er... you have a mild gag reflex, 99.9% of humanity is in the same boat...

>>17655295
It functions enough to be an inconvenience, but just poorly enough to be of no use.

>>17655176
Sexually embarrassed girls are especially qt.

>>17655355
I don't want to be cute, I want to drive men insane and ruin their lives.

>>17655371
Syphilis used to do that, before the advent of antibiotics.
Mercury maybe?

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>>17655371

>>17654910
just move, don´t be a fucking plank in the bed

>>17654910
>anal
>throatfucks
>titfucks
>moan
>do shit with your vagina muscles
>touch him
>press y<ourself against him

>>17654910
actually porn can help out, if you want to drive a man insane, you gotta work out what he likes, first off is he a top or bottom? (this is valid in str8 relationships) figure out which he is, and be the opposite.

>>17654910
I used to think girls being good in bed was about them taking charge, moving more, making more of an 'effort'.

But as I've matured all I really ask of women in bed is to relax. It's really the most important thing you can do.