In this day of age, when we have contraceptives and so many means

>>17652607
Because even an ugly girl can get a hot guy to fuck her. When it comes to casual sex, there's no reason why a girl should pick an average guy.

You'll have more insight if you realize that most women aren't nearly as interested in sex itself. It's more of a means to an end. So no, only a handful of nymphos are going to do what men really want, and even then it's only with guys who are attractive or take them out to eat.

>>17652607
The phrase is "day and age"

>>17652657
Well sorry, im not a native English speaker.

OP I bet you don't actually socialise with many women...

Just start socialising more with women and men.

if you enjoy being friends with women and actually like them as people you are way more likely to get laid then if your goal is purely to have sex with them (and not to enjoy spending time with them as people)

>>17652667
Im a quite uninteresting person.
Currently im in a foreign country where i hardly know the language. Back home, i have a few friends, some female, but none of them has been particularly interested in me. My best luck has been over the internet, but it's still very hard and most of the people you find on there are people with problems.

>>17652727
Then you're not an average guy, you're an incredibly below average guy. You're uninteresting and you can't even communicate with local women, of course no one will fuck you. You're trash.

it's not

>>17652616
How can an ugly girl get a hot guy to fuck her? What would you even know of that>

>>17652727
where are you from, anon? Because im in the same situation, and I'm a girl. So lol.

>>17652796
it depends on how ugly you are.. i think he means to say that an average girl can get a much hotter guy to sleep with her. which seems reasonable I guess but who knows if there are statistics to back that up

>>17652796
She literally just has to ask.
I was a fat teenager. Every time I got a crush on someone way out of my league and "confessed", they all told me the same thing - "I will fuck you, but you don't have to tell anybody. We won't go out in public and no one has to know".
Guys care abut getting their dick wet more than they care about who they get it wet with.

>>17652809
well, who would decline free pussy?

>>17652818
Wouldn't it be kind of weird if some girl you barely knew approached you and asked to sleep with you?

>>17652818
Oh, no one. I'm not really blaming them.
Just explaining why I think that if a girl is after casual sex, she can find a hot dude to fuck her and has no need to settle for an average looking guy.
Of course relationship are another matter.

>>17652825
why should it be weird
if both want casual sex and are attracted to eachother, then it's ok
people learn to know eachother better by having sex, instead of talking for a year about daily stuff

>>17652840
Not like you'd know.

>>17652809
The difference here is you were a fat teenager, not a hot guy. She just wanted dick from some desperate piece of shit, not from a 10/10

>>17652850
I once had a one year relationship with a pretty decent girl, that I met in a bar and had sex with on that same evening. Unfortunately we didn't manage to make it work over a long distance, but there were almost no issues while we were still together.

>>17652863
Anon, I think you kind of missed my point.
I am a girl, I was fat as a teenager. I asked some guys I liked out, and I had more than one guy offering to fuck me if I didn't tell anybody.
Which I didn't agree with because I wanted a relationship, but it is fairly common.
Maybe they weren't 10/10, but still pretty attractive dude.

>>17652871
If a girl asks a guy out, it's like recieving trust and that she may be interested in your looks, what might be enough for most guys if the doesn't seek a long relationship.
If a guy asks a girl out, it's gross, because he might see her as a sexual object, might not be trustworthy, may have no dignity, looks like a pathetic looser ...

>>17652885
>If a guy asks a girl out, it's gross, because he might see her as a sexual object, might not be trustworthy, may have no dignity, looks like a pathetic looser ...
Lol. What?

None of the guys I asked out were random dudes, it's not like I stopped someone in the streets. They were friends of friends, people I met while partying, etc.

>>17652892
>Lol. What?
if a guy asks a random girl out for fucking, I'm sure that in 95% he will be called a rapist or something similar

>None of the guys I asked out were random dudes
but it's not like you were good friends with them before having intercourse

>>17652885
>If a guy asks a girl out, it's gross, because he might see her as a sexual object, might not be trustworthy, may have no dignity, looks like a pathetic looser ...

wat. spoken like someone who has never asked a girl out

>>17652905
... Again, I didn't fuck them. I didn't ask them for random sex. I asked them to go out, because I liked them.
They told me that they were fine with sex, but not with a relationship.

Did you even read my posts?

>>17652912
you were a fat girl, asked the guys out you liked, they offered to fuck you and you declined??? what's this illusionary self-esteem bullshit

>>17652926
Yeah, I didn't want to fuck a random dude who had no interest in me. The idea of sucking a dick to get over the insecurities about my body sounded stupid back then and still is now.
I lost the weight, met a guy I like and likes me, and we're still together after years.

>>17652932
>I lost the weight, met a guy I like and likes me
congratulations, that's how it's done

>>17652825
It's weird because it never happens, but it's not really bad. It would probably boost my confidence and make me feel attractive and that im in "the game".

But, because it's such a rare event, i would probably decline, as a precaution, because i don't want to get robbed and killed by some thugs who use a beautiful girl as bait .

>>17652905
>>17652926
>>17652946
You sound like a massive tool. Do you get your opinions on women from /pol/?