So /adv/, I have a dilemma.
>haven't had sex in 5 years
>use Tinder for like a year with no luck
>start talking to some raver chick like 3 weeks ago, get her number, eventually set up a date at an EDM show
>seems cool, bit androgynous, "only into hookups"
>same time, meet a cute Japanese exchange student
>pure af, seems really interested in me
>first two dates went really well, third date in the works
>but she leaves for Japan in 4 months
Neither will lead to anything long-term, but I'm having second thoughts about this hookup. Should I just go for it, or am I going to feel like absolute shit afterwards?
>>17650302
Both.
You're gonna feel like shit either way, so you might as well get a fuck out of it
>>17650302
how would you even eat something like that
>>17650312
I did mention having another date to the Japanese girl, and she didn't seem that fazed by it. I think her feelings for me have developed since then, though...
>>17650330
One bite at a time
Op, it's only fair that you have the same amount of commitment as her. She'll fuck off in 4 months and only keep touch with you through the net and you should see other people and not resrtrist yourself to her until there is something to cemnt the relationship
>>17650344
*cement
>>17650344
I suppose. I was just in a similar scenario the last time I slept with someone and I ended up feeling like absolute garbage... That was far more fucked up, though. I've paid for the show ticket either way I guess