Whats up guys. So I'm 24 years old. I have been married to my wife for 1 year. We found out a couple months ago that she's pregnant, which is cool I've always wanted to be a dad. Well in the year or so of marriage before the pregnancy, sex was already becoming an issue. Before marriage the sex life was good nothing too kinky but frequent good sex. We even did some bondage which I'm way into and some other kinky things. After we get married she tells me how she really doesnt like the bdsm stuff much. Not a deal breaker I understand different people like different things. It wasn't long after that, sex got a little less frequent. Not as many positions or enthusiasm. Now that she's been pregnant a few months, sex has practically ceased. Its a problem for me. Im a total perv. And think about sex constantly. When sex died down I went to porn. And now its getting worse I need some pussy. But she's a great woman and I dont want to cheat on her. To be 24 and already dealing with the stereotypical uninterested wife seems too much. What will it be like after 10 years of marriage? How fucked am I?
>>17649929
Sounds like she was just using you to get pregnant and take care if her. Women are like that.
Sex drive is usually very low in the first and third trimesters
Women want to feel safe during and after having kids. Give it a few years
>>17649929
Go on. Leave her. Let her be a single mom and have your child grow up in a broken home while you chase sex with younger women on FetLife. Why do you need our blessing?
>>17649944
t. a cuck
sex is for girlfriends, not wives
>>17649948
A good wife (extremely rare) will take care of her husband's needs.
>>17649929
It's obvious that marriage was a bad idea. I think you should buy a boat and take your wife fishing.
>>17649929
How long have you been with her before marriage, OP?
>After we get married she tells me how she really doesnt like the bdsm stuff much.
HUGE red flag. HUGE.
She lied before getting married, and now she doesn't even want to try for you anymore.
>What will it be like after 10 years of marriage? How fucked am I?
In 10 years you'll divorce and find someone younger, and do the same mistakes all over again.
>>17649946We still had sex, she just put up with it
First trimester is serious nausea. Third is bloated and gross for both of you
It's a year of bad or no sex, basically. Vagina needs to heel
Oh yeah, and... OP... This is your last chance for tight vagina. It does not go back after pushing out that softball sized head
So...... totally fucked.