Hey guys, can I get some sharing of first love stories? I recently

I've never even had a long term relationship, longest was 6 months. However did you manage 3 years?

>>17648977

Well I never wanted to get into a relationship until it felt "right" so I was 21 when we first started dating and we just clicked, was pretty smooth sailing for the first 3 years then even though she loved me still she just grew tired of her life in general and depressed with where she was at in life on a personal level, that led to her wanting to see if she can live independently and find her own happiness without leaning on me all the time.

18-25 range not many people have it figured out, so I understand this feeling somewhat, I just hope she finds happiness in herself.

I tried the childhood friend route when I was younger. Didn't pan out.

I'm dating the same girl I was with throughout high school now, been together more than 5 years I think. Stopped keeping track after I graduated high school.

>>17648936
Oh and as harsh as it sounds you should just get over it. Drink a lot and hang out with some buds or whatever, and realize your mistakes but don't dwell on em. Don't be such a soggy cunt you foul smelling queer

First love? It was more puppy love due to age and all, but she fucked my best friend. And that, my friends, was my introduction to girlfriends.

>>17648936
I was 19 stuck with my parents with no car and no job or skills to speak of. I had contemplated suicide a couple times when I first told her. She offered to have me move in to her place with her parents and they would all help me actually get somewhere in life. One month before I moved in we started dating. Same old spiel as OP thinking we were invincible.

Fast forward to 6 months ago and we broke up after over 3 years. I told myself when it was over it was over but we promised to remain friends, and we did, for a short while.

My depression from back then has resurfaced and worse than ever. I've pushed her and my only friends away due to thinking about the break up. I feel alone when there's company, I have no hobbies and all I do is work to compensate. I still live with her and her mother and I dread coming home. Ive decided to move back to my parents since I can't make it on my own in my mental state now.

My advice. Just stop thinking about it. My thoughts of what could have been has destroyed me and the relationships I had with those around me. Give space and grow.

i started dating this girl my last semester of college. I had never really thought about dating her until I had a dream about her one night. Next time I saw her it kind of clicked and I realized she was absolutely stunning. We talked for a month and then I asked her out. We dated for a while until she graduated college. She broke up with me a week after her graduation and it destroyed me. I didn't speak to her for nearly three years bc she moved away for grad school but she came to a wedding i was attending. We didn't speak there either but she texted me after. We kind of dated/reconnected after that but with her living so far away it never really became anything. That love I had for her at the time we had broken up died. I've been trying to recapture that feeling ever since.