>3 year relationship with gf >More mature than girls her

>>17645966
Move in together.

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hold the fuck on to her.
I have a similar situation only difference is me and her have been apart far far far too long.
when love comes knocking on your door you hold the fuck on to it, not everyone is so lucky as to actually get a response from there beloved so you just hold on to it while you can. for some of us, the dream died so you keep it alive buddy. the best of luck.
annon

>>17645966
Disregard the opinions of your friends and family. Unless they express options on her having a negative effect on the rest of your life, fuck them. If this person gives you the emotional support you been socially and emotionally, then fun your stupid friend s

>>17645966
What do you feel about the sitiation yourself?

Explain your friends that you have not a lot of time to spend together, try to make them understand the situation. If they refuse to accept it or do not support you, they're bad friends. The same goes for the family.

Also, why don't they complain about you working or studying too hard?

ppl find time they want to find time for
you are lieing, thats what the pressure comes from

man up faggot, be honest

>>17645974
This.

Marry her. Whats with kids this days afraid to tie the knot and start a family.

>>17645966
>3 years together
>you both study and work, not spending time together
>1 night a week you have free (dubious)
Get a place together if she thinks you aren't spending enough time together, even if it is a small apartment
I'm 26 and because of work I'm lucky to have 1 night to myself, usually that night doesn't fall on the same time as my friends's because of my rota, I've not seen my closest friends in about 3 months, I haven't seen many friends in years, sometime I catch them and chat over facebook or skype, but that's it really.
Just be careful that you aren't just fucking otherwise she will become insecure.

Unfortunately there's no ideal situation, you can't have your cake and eat it, welcome to the world of being an adult.

You aren't spending too much time together unless you are leaving out some important details.

OP here, thanks for the response.
At the moment I cant move in with her because her house is too far from work and so im saving up to buy a car. I have so much stress from work and studies and all I hear from everyone is that I dont spend enough time with them. I feel like im drowning and all I want is one day to wake up without my head buzzing and get away from it all. Ive even thought about splitting up but the thought that I wont ever find someone to love me like this again scares me a lot.
I believe in the end itll all work out but till then I have to stay strong.

what a bunch of shitty advice.

>>17646842
Why do you say that?

>>17646801
Buy a mid 2000s used manual Hyundai for like $3000, that wont hurt the budget much and it'll last you a while

>>17645966
Move in together or dissappear then youll have all the time too your self who needs friend family and a g

>>17645966
You spend 1 night a week together and your friends think that's too much time

Your friends sound like assholes

Also yeah, move in, 3 years is plenty of time to wait for that, you'll get more time together