I feel like my gf is losing interest in me and lately I've been having trouble just talking to her. Don't want to end it yet, what do?
>>17637788
need more info,
how long you been together,
how old are both of you.
are you having sex, if yes how often, if not how often are you intimate physically ?
>>17637796
>About 6-7 months
>Both 19
>Yes, probably like once a week, just guessing
I don't want to be cucked but it might be a possibility.
>>17637796
We've been sort of distant the past couple weeks
>>17637804
okay so any problems I should know about? you drink a lot does she?
Is she hanging around guys a lot?
do you have a nagging ex?
anything like that?
>>17637820
Not really anything specific. She's been paying more attention to her friends than to me recently, some of those friends being guys but I don't like to get jealous and stuff. It just feels like she's more interested in other guys than she is with me.
>>17637820
even if there is something the problem with 19 yr old relationships is that you feel like you can't move on and its really important to stay together. the reality is that some things just end and probably should sooner than later.
however if you are really still in here is a great test I've done a few time in your situation.
buy her flowers and surprise her! if she is really excited and showers you with affection than you are okay and she might just be a little depressed or stressed out. Try and talk to her about whats going on making her so distant
If she reacts sort of casual and not really giddy or appreciative than she is probably losing interest and it might be over. use her reaction as a way to engage in convo about where she see's the relationship going.
>>17637788
>>17637788
>>17637788
Do something new. Keep her engaged. Open up. Take risks. You've been together long enough you can start showing a shadow of yourself. Show it. If she doesn't like what she sees, move on.
>>17637831
>>17637843
Thanks anons. I guess I'm just feeling kind of insecure about myself. Our monthly anniversary is coming up soon, I'll do something then.
>>17637845
it's gotta be a surprise dude! That's the only reason the test works. If she is expecting something the whole dynamic changes
>>17637856
I'll try it out, then. Thanks. Hopefully I get what I hope for.
>>17637871
Yea dude that's good. Show her how good you are and don't let other people try to stop you from showin it.
The problem is you're a pussy and she already has a pussy.