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Whats up >Me 15-16 years old >Faps almost everyday >Making

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Whats up
>Me 15-16 years old
>Faps almost everyday
>Making out with girl when drunk
>I realize i cant get boner no matter what so it ends with just kissing
>18y/o me , gets girlfriend, about to fuck and lose my erection while fucking, what a letdown
>We broke up some weeks later now we back together
>She left to another country for few months about 2weeks later we got back together
>Still watch porn few times a week maybe more
>Never really feel horny when around her maybe becuz stress
>Hella insecure when she comes back when we about to fuck i cant get boner
Wtf i do now? How to get over this? I know ive stopped watching porn today ill see how it turns out. How do i gain confidence while shes still in another country?
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>>17637531
Stop fapping. Don't look at porn.
Trust me - try it at least for two weeks, and you should already see a difference.
If you don't , your right hand will (hopefully) still be there for you.
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Whtever you do, don't watch porn just to try to test if u can get an erection or not, it's counter productive
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>>17637531
A few options:
>Your heart denies the girl
That's a conscience thing. If you really wanted to get along, you'd give it everything to "make her yours". In the deep down you don't want kids, and fear or regret about that idea. If you don't want your heart to get in your way then keep the foreplay long; cuddle, snuggle, spoon, start with oral sex favors then get on the real job. That's a challenge for the girl, just offer her the thing, if she really wants you she'll do it.
>Watching porn improved your expectations from sex
Compared to porn, sex is pretty straight and bland thing. If you can't get in the mood then think about getting lubes and different lingeries for you to get in the zone. May be it's because you don't see your partner "willing" and enthusiastic about it and that causes you to stuck in an awkward position.
>Lack adrenaline or stamina when time comes, or feel under stress
You're fucking too young for such thing to happen, but small amount of aphrodisiac usage and cutting down looking at porn won't hurt either. I suggest daily 20-30 min walks if you have any stress related problems. Your hormones will be more responsive if your legs start working.
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>>17637560
Going start today, whats really getting in way is that my gf likes to skype with me and we both do this phone sex kinda thing
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>>17637655
Thanks for the tips, going to start walking and quit porn for good. I do feel stressed when it comes to sex, alot stress. Guess its fear of failure, should i complety quit fapping? I usually Skype with gf and do phone sex kinda thing.
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>>17637803
Quitting fap 2 weeks before the date would improve your performance alot. Drink lots of water and try to "edge" yourself when doing the phone sex. Act normal as always in Skype.
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>>17637531
if you are 18 you should have no problem being good for once a day unless you are on medication or have some medical condition.
This happens to lots of guys their first time, it's nerves, first time was just booze, but its all in your head (pun intended) its psycological. Consider that most girls the orgasm is more than 50% mental, guys is about 95 - 5, but it's possible for you to be a little skewed towards 10 or 15 percent mental. LIke I said super super common and you just gotta relax and talk to her about it (she won't mind) and take it slow and it'll happen
happy boning !
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>>17638047
I've always been pretty sure its just in my head and i just overthink it, guess i just wanted someone say it to me. I have lots time to improve myself.
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>>17637987
Edge myself? Anyways thanks.
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>>17637531
>no fap
>no porn
>do pushups/pullups
>get a cardio program going
>STRETCH. Stretch your fucking hips. Do yoga, basic stretches, whatever. Guys have horribly hip flexibility and it leads to poor blood flow in that area if your not active
>drink lots of water/juice, eat more red meat
>meditate for stress reduction

Do all these things for a month and I can garuntee your problem will be solved, as well as a host of other benefits.
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>>17638133
I'll start soon as i get off work, thank you alot.
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