My girflriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now, and I have noticed that we have been having a lot lot less sex the past few months. We maybe do it every few weeks, when we used to do it every day and all that.. When I ask her about it, she just says she is self conscious about herself and stuff like that (never give her any reason to think that, she just doesn't feel comfortable with her sexual things and whatnot).
Is something the matter, or what? She says it is no issue, but I am getting tired of masturbating
>>17636880
My ex girlfriend did this stuff too. I'd be on the lookout for shit, because she accused me of all sorts of things dealing with other women (except that I don't HAVE other women all over me) while she had tons of guys coming out of the woodwork right after we started dating.
Something is the matter, but she won't tell you what it is.
>>17636899
She hasn't been accusing me of anything at all, so I dunno if something is up, but I will keep my guard up a tad more I suppose.
maybe she feels less close to you and you have to spice things up? maybe go out somewhere different together? try wooing her again a bit more and see if the sexies come back
Same here OP with my gf. But also my gf was just recently put on a new medication for a mental issue, so it might be the medication killing her sex drive. She told me that she just hasn't felt like it and has a naturally low sex drive. It's not like we had a ton of sex before, just was more consistent. I know those feels OP. Also don't let 4chan convince you that something is suspicious in your relationship. Ever situation is individual and has different factors.
Talk to her about it and let her know it's important to you?
>>17637117
I think it could be something like this too. My gf got less sexual when she switched to a different birth control medication, and then got more sexual again when she switched off it.