Guys, i want to start the dating game and flirt with men a lot.

>>17636832
>female
>trouble dating
Pffffftt hahahahahahahaha fuck off.

Im always wondering why people look for happiness in dating or fucking, it will not make you happy. live your life for yourself

>>17636839
Because society has put such a stigma on prostitution that the only way to get laid is to do it the old fashioned way of getting a girlfriend. I don't want a girlfriend. I just want to fuck on the regular without dealing with some dumb bitch's emotional garbage. But, no, men like me don't get freedom like that. At least not in America.

>>17636839
You are right, anon, that's the entire board's problem tho.
I hit 21 and realized i want to be hot and desirable, because i want to stop being insecure about myself. Don't know how that works,

>>17636837
I want quality dating, yes, i am an entitled bitch, also i keep spilling spaghetti everytime

>>17636837
For real. Even as a female neckberad all you have to do is show a little interest in someone and you're good.

Which kind of "female" are you? Pre-op? Post-op?

>>17636856
You're just another bottom 40% woman looking for a top 30% man. Fuck you.

>>17636856
I have been there, i got good looking etc etc etc. All eyes on me bla bla. But seriously, when i was the laughing happy shy gamer, i was enjoying my life so much more. Now im dealing with some girls bullshit because i wanted to get my dick wet like >>17636855 said. It went so far, that i have lost my fun personality from all the stress of others' crap

>>17636856
>I want quality dating, yes, i am an entitled bitch, also i keep spilling spaghetti everytime
Would you characterize yourself as a special snowflake, totally unique in every way?

>>17636858
Well, guys don't like me, because i'm shy in not-entertaining way, passive-aggressive and deadpan.

I want to become a better version of myself, a softer feminine one and my choice is 2d-girl-wannabe.
>Is choice ok?

>>17636869
My life is good, i have nice friends, still not satisfied. I want to be respected and popular, because i want to revive my pride and ambition.

>>17636877
Of course, anon, i am fucking fabulous and i need to show it to everyone.

>i want the better part of supeority-inferiority complex, please. The other way sucks way too much.

>>17636897
I like you! Let's date!

Stop being obese, don't dress Korean unless you're Korean, and go to places where guys you find interesting would go to. Then simply show them you're interested (but don't be too upfront) and bam

Some men like shy, clumsy and innocent women, but you really shouldn't actively try to appear so, people will catch on and judge you harshly for it. You can't "become moe". Also no one cares about korean fashion.

Best advice I can give you is to get fit, smile a lot, be positive and talkative. Don't be afraid to talk about your hobbies, even if they're a little weird, but don't try to make stuff up about your hobbies and personality to appeal to people if you want to date them.

Ultimately you have to bee yourself. You can't hide who you are for a long from the person you're dating and even if you could it would make you miserable. But this doesn't mean you can't change who you are. I'm not saying you should change your hobbies and beliefs, but you should try to get some of the qualities everyone likes. So you shouldn't try changing the fact that you're a female nerd or that you dislike manwhores, but you should strive to be a good conversationalist, physically and mentally healthy, understanding, calm, etc.

>>17636922
I am asian and my bmi is normal
Okay, it's not weird to ask guys to come with you, right?

>>17636949
I want an anime fan boyfriend and anime life.
Will try to work on get fit and positive.

Your advice is the most helpful i've got on adv, thanks, anon

>>17637014
Why don't you start up an escort service and go around fucking weebs who want that kawaii anime girlfriend experience? I'll be your first customer. How much for a night, sugar tits? Will you swallow?

>>17637014
>ask guys to come with you
In sparse doses it'll be very good

>>17636869
>mfw every girls I tried to simply hook up with ended up having feelings for me
>mfw end up in a fucking mental gymnastic to get her out of my life without hurting them
>mfw the sex is not even worth all this effort

For real, fuck that shit. If I wanted to date you, I would've taken the time to know you.

>>17636832
>I want to start the dating game and flirt with men a lot
>shy

>I want to be respected and popular, because i want to revive my pride and ambition
>through flirting a lot and being in the dating game

>>17636949
This anon gave great advice, but I think that you're taking the wrong mean for what you're trying to achieve. If you want to feel respected through the amount of men you're fucking you'll be a slut. If you want to achieve respected by the amount of men that desire you, you'll bring jealous and hatred upon yourself.

There is nothing wrong in wanting to feel desire, but if you want to have a boyfriend or a fuckbuddy, just go in places where you can find what you require. Almost everyone watch an anime of some sort. Even if the guy you like don't like anime, it's easy for you to make him like it, just cuddle with him while watching the anime and he'll be happy.

>>17637056
Alright

>>17637139
There is a guy with whom i can really be myself, but he doesn't seem to see me romantically.

>>17637174
I don't want to fuck anyone, i never ever got a boyfriend. Used to be a stuck up geek, dark past. i just want to stop being invisible and genderless.
Just being moe and cheerful, confident spend time with guys platonically.

>>17636832

Just bee urself :)

Men are way more desperate so as long as you're at least a 3 in looks and not obese, men will attach themselves to you.

>>17637187
Invite him to a private event: coffee, chilling in the park.

Then tell him you're seeing him as a potential partner material, because you can be yourself with him and you pass good time with him.

It's literally this easy. He may say he's not interested, but you'll feel proud of yourself for making the effort of trying.

>>17637202
>I don't want to fuck anyone
Then why do you even consider a relationship?

>Just being moe and cheerful, confident spend time with guys platonically
Being cheerful is something you need to work on alone, by being a more positive person, thus emanating a more positive energy.
Being more confident can be acquire by forcing yourself to talk to guys you find cute.

Trying to have platonic conversation with a guy is going to be hard as fuck, unless your friends can present you to other circle of friends or trying to be friendly with guys around your work/college, but when a guys speak with a girl, he mostly want to fuck her. If he wanted a platonic conversation, he would speak to his male friend, which are probably funnier than you.

>>17637210
I think it's time for me to man up, then

He has too much control over me, i am a bit scared that he'll manipulate me to do his bidding or lie.
But i'll try.

>>17637250
Why can't i be the same level of fun as male friend? I was very used to this role at school.

Talking with geek girls is just not the same.

Thanks, i'll try to become more confident by talking to attractive guys and getting out of comfort zone.

I want to fuck only the guy who is commited and trustworthy enough. Who wants a relationship.

>>17637275
>I want to fuck only the guy who is commited and trustworthy enough. Who wants a relationship.
waifu material mentality

>he'll manipulate me to do his bidding or lie
As long as you realize it, he have no control over you.

>>17637299
Thanks for the compliment, anon.
Gods give me strength

>>17637139
Im in a mental gymnastic now.. :/ I'm getting insecure/losing my personality now. fuck my fucking life

you can date me anon

>>17637546
Where are u

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Be more like an anime girl.

No but really, you're a nerdy girl. You're also asian. You're like every nerdy guy's wet dream (assuming you're not over 200lbs). You shouldn't have a problem finding a guy if you stick to those type of people. There's plenty of lonely single nerds out there that are more than willing to date a subpar woman (or better). If you're looking for a chad then yea you might have some trouble.

All you need to do is start asking guys out. That's all you need to do! There's no risk in it. Unlike guys, there's a 0% chance you'll come off as creepy and a 100% chance they will find it endearing even if they do reject you. There is literally no reason you shouldn't be asking out guys all the time. Don't play the signs game because it never works.

Good luck.

>>17637581
Thanks, anon!
It raised my spirits!
And I'll tell guys about my feslings from now on!

Good luck, and more anime in your life!

are u in australia? you can date me too

i have a big heart, and a tiny apartment.

>>17637653
Too far from Australia, anon, sorry

>>17637961
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