broke up with my girlfriend for a long as time and I feel devastated

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>>17635492
stop talking to your ex. stop trying to keep up with what she is doing and don't allow her to know anything about what you are doing. Shortly you will find she is seeing another guy or guys and its gonna hurt a lot worse than it does now.

Don't. Get over her get your shit together, then in a while try again. She doesn't seem to be emotionally driven on this, she seems to have a much more logical approach to things. She probably still does love you but recognizes that if you get back together so immediately the underlying issues that caused you to break up with her in the first place won't change at all so the relationship will be damaged from the very start.

If you take a break for a bit and figure out what you want to do with your life, reassess and learn more about yourself then you can both go back into the relationship on equal footing and be stronger. Try to stay in touch with her, but don't be there for her all the time (friend-zoned) and maybe consider talking to some other girls.

In a year or two, then consider trying things again when it's fresh and new again because you'll have a better shot of it working.

>>17635627
I dont wait to wait that long to get back with her.
But you are right. I should just get my shit together, thats a priority right now.

I was planning about talking with her more and more regularly as time passes, without seeming obvious, and get progress with her and slowly move to get back together.
Of course I already realized that this might fail but I think its worth a shot. Then if we are at it again we can fix the underlying problem.

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All you wanna do is stick your dick in her. Get over it. Women are usually a waste of time and a real buzz kill most of the time.