So I was changing and caught my neighbor creeping at me through the window of his house, he instantly looked embarassed and went away. Whats worse is hes 40 years old, married, and Im 19.
Should I tell anybody about this or keep it to myself?
>>17632474
You should close your blinds if you don't want people to see you naked. It doesn't sound like he was peeping on purpose, he just happened to look out his window and see a 19-year-old girl taking her clothes off.
If you catch the guy camping out with binoculars, you can make a big deal out of it. This sounds like an honest mistake. Close your curtains next time
>>17632493
>creeping on someone is an honest mistake
t. rapist
>>17632778
Shut the fuck up.
>>17632493
Not sure how you could classify this as "an honest mistake" based on the information given us. You are correct, though, that OP should close his/her blinds.
>>17632474
Not sure what kind of relationship you have with your neighbour, but I'd be inclined to let it slide, once. If it happens again, though, tell his wife.
>>17632474
let's see what you look like before making any assessment, chances are he just look out his window and accidentally see you, or maybe he looked away in disgust instead of embarrassment.
>>17632474
You should keep it to yourself. You could potentially ruin his life for an honest mistake.
Even though he's 40 he's still a man and men aren't the most pious of people. He realizes what he did was wrong, and probably regrets letting his urges get the best of him.
If he does it again on purpose or you legitimately believe he's sexually harassing you, which is unlikely just based on your scenario, then you should tell someone. Otherwise no.
Don't jump to conclusions. He's probably a normal man trying to live his life and doesn't deserve it.
>>17632796
No relationship, we just know each other. Plus he got to see the entire show before I noticed him which is embarassing af
In this particular instance, it sounds like an honest mistake. Even if he leered for a moment or two longer than he probably should have, it seems like he was probably caught as off guard as he was.
But keep an eye out and make sure he's not snooping. Also, close your blinds, girl.
>>17632796
How is it not an honest mistake? He just looked out his window and saw a girl changing. He didn't know she'd be there, there's no reason to believe he was sitting and waiting for her to take her clothes off. As soon as she looked at him, he caught himself and looked away.
It'd be creepy if he was waiting for her to change, it'd be creepy if he kept staring after she caught him. But he's not a bad guy just for SEEING what was right in front of him. There's not enough info here to label the guy a creep. If anything, OP is a bit of an exhibitionist for changing with her windows open
>>17632474
My neighbor used to steal my wifi to watch granny porn and went around the house naked.
One day he was drunk, fell and smashed his right testicle to the ground. It was surgically removed afterwards.
>karma
>>17632831
He has every right to look out his own damned window. Sounds to me like you're a bit of an exhibitionist or just plain stupid. Close your fucking blinds if you don't want people looking at you, dumbass.
>>17632848
>>17632863
>exhibitionist
The only way he can see into my room is from the window of his basement, so he was in the basement. I only close the window to masturbate or sleep, not to change in a hot af day
>>17632868
Oh I see. He doesn't get to go into his own basement while you're changing. Got it. Here's some advice- get over yourself and close the blinds.
>>17632474
Anon, close your blinds if you don't want people to see you.
He was in his house, didn't have binocs, wasn't jerking it, and obviously didn't mean for you to catch him.
Sounds like a momentary thing where he saw you by chance and stopped a second to admire.
Seriously. Close your blinds.
>>17632868
>I only close the window to masturbate or sleep, not to change
what the fuck
I'm a guy and I always close my blinds when I change. My neighbor has daughters and wouldn't want to piss him off.
>So I was changing and caught my neighbor creeping at me through the window. Whats worse he isn't a 10/10 Chad with chiseled abs and a smile that makes me melt
>>17632474
So this is a "women are fucking insane thread"?
>>17632863
>>17632876
Shouldn't you be busy exposing yourself to teenagers?
>>17632474
Sounds like it may have been a one off incident. Let's see if he does it again. If so confront him and the wife
>>17632868
Look, I dunno what to tell you. Based on this one incident, it's impossible to tell whether he was peeping on purpose, or just happened to look out his window and see you. If it continues to be an issue, it'd make sense to confront him.
But for real though, if privacy is a concern for you, it's easy as hell to close your blinds. You can't blame him for looking when you're basically giving him a show. The whole world doesn't turn blind and deaf when you want to go unseen, I swear women can be so naive about this stuff sometimes
>>17632890
>naive
That's a nice way of saying "self-centered cunt".
>>17632868
what is the distance between his basement and your room ? if there's no other optical equipment I doubt he could see much of you
Did you show your vagina ? It would look like a tiny tiny vagina, like a dot.
>>17632474
id leave it alone because he left
>>17632888
>If so confront him and the wife
I feel like it'd be an overreaction and a mistake to bring it to his wife's attention, unless the guy does something worse than look out his own damn window. Don't fuck with their marriage over something like this. It's not even about whether or not he "deserves it," it's just that you really don't want to start that kind of drama/feud with the people that live right next door, unless it's completely unavoidable.
In this case, as others have said, you could avoid it by closing your curtains for a few seconds while you're naked, like EVERYONE ELSE WITH NEIGHBORS does.
Post nudes please
>>17632474
>through the window of his house
I hope you get raped to death
>dressing in front of an open window
Sounds like you're the pervert, OP.
>flasher calls other people perverts
wew
>>17632474
I hope to God this is b8. Close your blinds you retard.
>>17632938
This. I hope he calls the police on you, OP.
Femfag here, if I saw someone changing with their blinds open I would stare a bit (innocently) anybody would really c^:
Close your blinds when you change
>>17632474
maybe you'll eventually enjoy it ?