NEET / Shut-in Improvement General

>>17630468
no, i love my neet-life

https://discord.gg/AAhJ6eR

>>17630490
And is it sustainable?

https://discord.gg/AAhJ6eR

For the discord.

>>17630509
Nice work look good !

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>>17630503
i manage to survive, im not unhappy tho

>>17630520
Thanks

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>>17630533

Can you sauce on the original image ?

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My dear /adv/...

This group was a mistake.

For your own well being, don't waste your time with this. Your already valuable time could be spend on you fixing your lives or searching for more qualified individuals to discuss your problems.

In here you will only get half assed advice from people that's in, probably, a worse situation than you and that's... that's something you really don't need.

I leave this last message as an advice, no, as a warning for you guys to be wary and vigilant if you eventually decide to take part on any future groups (like the one that's being promoted already) and the people that you will find there.

To the anon who warned us, you were right.

- Borodin

i don't like or relate to most other people

how do i fix that

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>>17630544

I was a NEET for years after college living literally in my parents' basement, and now I have a somewhat decent job and I'm dating someone cool.

I don't know what kind of advice I can offer but most of my coworkers didn't graduate high school and make the same as me, so there's still hope for people who didn't like school.

>>17630551
Figure out what you dislike about them and why you don't relate to them. Keep in mind the problem is in your worldview, not in them. Try to change the way you think about them because if you're looking down on most people, you're going to be very isolated. I do the same thing in real life and it's definitely self-destructive.

>>17630530
How long will you survive? Is your family going to take care of you for the rest of your life?

Is an LDR like the worst possible thing for me?
Bipolar managing off meds.
She wants me to move out of the security of my parents home to support her moving to me.
At first it seemed like a good way to push myself out of being a NEET but now I think I can do that on my own and I'm wasting my time and potentially money and progress with her.

>>17630694
its not like i dont try to find a job or sth. but after <20 rejections i just hope trump get prez and nukes earth so we can live in stoneage again. all neets will die but whatever

>>17630740
You gave up after just 20 rejections? Were you picky about the hours, the jobs, and the locations? Unless you live in a small town, it's hard to believe you're not able to find any form of work in a big city.

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>>17630764
i cant belive you care about that but...
>You gave up after just 20 rejections?
Yes
>Were you picky about the hours,
Yes
>the jobs,
Yes
>and the locatio...
Yes
> Unless you live in a small to...
No
>it's hard to believe you're not able to find any form of work in a big city.
Go and try to find a career if you dont care about the society and hate humans.
Good luck

>>17630818
since you dont answere i declare that I, the NEET have won this meaningless competition of stupidness.
praise the sun ya'll \o/

>>17630563
>I don't know what kind of advice I can offer
How about telling us what kind of decent job you got and how you got it?

>>17630818
Hit the nail on the head.
This is my exact situation.
If I wasn't choosy the last point just got me fired without fail.

>>17630547
Well, it would seem my initial impression of you was wrong. It just goes to show you how little you can tell about someone through text alone. I was hoping it wouldn't fall apart as fast as it did... I guess I still have a little bit of idealism left that hasn't been ripped out of me from my experiences with the previous NEET/Shut-in community. That being said, I'm not surprised that things degraded as rapidly as they did.

Your heart was in the right place, but I guess you've learned, as I did, that gathering up a bunch of people in one place, with moderate to severe psychological issues, isn't the most therapeutic thing to do. At least you didn't let it drag on too long or let it get intertwined with your personal life like i did.

Good luck Borodin, and take care.

>>17631091
people like you i hate the most

>>17631091

>Implying that your better than a NEET.

what are you trying to prove here ? you might be aswell cancerous than a fucking NEET at least here there not alone, and they might try something different for once.

how do i tell keski i love her

>>17631895
Bring shekels

>>17631895
>loving traps

23 yo going to interviews
no experience

what do i do/say

>>17633301
you say join the discord and ask us there

>>17633301
Simply say that you haven't had a lot of experience, but that is what you are currently looking for. More experience and a chance to prove yourself to be good employee and that you are willing to work hard for it.

You can also bullshit experience, it doesn't need to be actual work experience. But you might be experienced in life. What have you done with your life? Traveled? (mention you have experience of problem solving and planning), volunteered? (experience with dealing with people, you're most likely social and have good communication skills that could be well used), school? (experience with working in groups and deliver projects on time) Played games (Experience with working in teams/being a team leader, and complete tasks in a timely manner). Cleaned your parents house? (Efficient and trustworthy, experience with taking on projects from start to finish).

Hi, I am a half neet I think. I'm not a shut in, but I am very socially awkward. I used to have a job as a stockboy, but I got laid off, and I'm having trouble finding jobs around me. I have a college education and a bachelor's degree, but unfortunately my major was in art.

I am suffering from an attempt at interpersonal relations, and I'm wondering if my situation is abnormal, or if I am just the abnormal one. I have a friend, who's been working since he was 16, way longer than I have. an he gets me to buy him fast food and videogames I have to stay over there until he goes to sleep because he has trouble sleeping. For the record, his rationale is that I am spoiled compared to him, and that he has worked longer than I have and that he could just posses my body, he could easily get a job for me. If I don't answer the phone from him, he'll call me at least 33 times and message me at least 20 times in a day.

My parents are hardcore partisan democrats, who are going to be voting for Hillary this year, and my friend is a conspiracy theorist flavor of libertarian socialist(believes 9/11 was an inside job,. that vaccines are fraudulent inventions, and also a spiritual energy healer), and he will be voting for no one this year, because did not board the Trump Train with Alex Jones and co. He asks me to hang out with from 12:00pm to 2:30am. I go to bed afterwards when I get home 30 min later

My parents think he is a narcissist. Like someone with NPD. And blames him for ruining my life since I spend so much time with him. My friend thinks my parents are weird, and blames them for ruining my life by interfering with social life.


Also, I think I have Asian fetish because I am attracted to little adorable Asian women. I need help getting over that. (For the record, I have never been in a real relationship before. I also the kind of virgin who will have to be goaded into having sex, in that I feel sexual attraction, but fear the prospect of actually doing it.)

Anybody have tips on adjusting to abilify? Or new meds in general? This one has me particularly jittery and almost in a mania state.

>kissless virgin
>had lunch with a girl last week for the first time
>want to try and go out with her again but don't know what else to do

Pls help

>>17633849
How did it go last time?

>>17633858
Surprisely well i think. Hope.
We talked for a while and it ended up being together for two hours without me realising.

>>17633880
I'm not really the best person to ask, join discord no one looks at the thread

>>17633880
Listen man, don't sweat the small stuff okay? I know it's exciting, sometimes scary being around the pretty girl you're after, but they are only human. The best way to move things along is to just let nature take its course and let the subjects flow. Think about your end goal. What do you want, to get to know her? Well then ask her about herself, share personal life stories, ask about her future goals, etc etc, the main thing here is that "what you say" is only 50% of it, the other 50% is "how you say it." Does your humor click, does she get your sarcasm and viceversa, do you share a similar level of racism, etc.

Hide your power level. Whenever a subject comes up that you just happen to be well versed in, be humble about it. If she mentions she spent her summer in Peru and you just happened to do charity work there for 4 months, be humble about it. Don't just go off about the whole thing, continue to focus on her.

Girls like to be made feel special, so when she's around just focus on her, not your phone, not your watch, not the background, her. Make eye contact, seem interested in her stories, share some of your own, and soon enough she'll give you a chance to make a move.

>>17633889
Carlos here, that chatroom is dead

>>17633928
Are you sure you're using the right discord? We migrated.

>>17633928
All those points you've mentioned, I've hoped I did them. Like I said, we spent two hours together and I didn't even realise. I hope she thought it went well too. Just have to take her out again with something different but I don't know what.

>>17634024
You can take her to lunch somewhere else - a cafe, or something. Dinner, movie (not that great as a venue to get to know one another, but pretty good as a venue to get a bit closer), a walk somewhere nice like a park or the beach, a fair/carnival, an arcade/barcade, an amusement park. Honestly there are loads of different places. Look up things to do in [your city or the nearest large city here] on Google. All sorts of ideas.