Has anybody been in a relationship where they were your first

Yeah I did because I wasn't a child. People aren't the same and so if she had already been with someone then doesn't take anything away from her. What am I going to get angry she didn't hold out for me? Please. Normal adults don't worry about stupid shit like this because it is wasting brain cells thinking about it.

>>17598043
Yeah.
Old buddy i slouched around with back in the day was a known casual fucker. All we ever did together was break windows on abandoned factories, burn shit, steal shit, or generally be delinquents.
One day when we were 14 she just up and asks why i never made moves or why i generally just acted like she was one of the dudes. Told her i figured she got enough of that from every other guy she knew and I didn't want our general relationship as it was at the time to change. She asked if i'd ever wanted to bang her and i just sort said "well yeah, i'm a dude in his puberty phase i kinda wanna fuck any girl i meet." Almost immediately knew that sounded douchey but it seemed to move her or something cause she basically just tackled me.
Was it awkward? Kinda, but i accepted that, and knew i would be awkward at it going in cause she's had 4 years of experience on me with at least 20 others, that i know of, and i was a virgin.
Banged for 3ish years casually cause we rented a trailer for our own purposes later that year and occasionally we brought others home.
Ended nicely when we both went to different schools though we still occasionally met up and now we get drinks together occasionally to catch up.

There's no getting around this, just accept it and follow their lead. Just make sure you tell them going in that way they know ahead of time they're gonna have to guide you.
I've been told by other chicks that its actually kinda of good in the long run cause they can train you and everything you'll know about sex during that with them is strictly what pleases them rather than some hold over habit the guy has from another chick. Which honestly is how my experience with other chicks have been though an experienced chick hasn't been an issue though maybe thats just the difference between equipment used.

Either way: expect awkwardness, expect a good chance of popping early, listen carefully, and enjoy.

>>17598134
Either way: expect it to be awkward, expect to pop early, listen closesly, and enjoy.

Oh, and if you're THAT worried about popping early just jack off before hand(clean yourself) and that should buy some time.
Pineapple juice, grapfruit juice, and orange juice ALL help with recover if drank just before or after and shit doesn't have to end the second both of you have cum. You can work her over at her guidance while your boy takes a rest and you can obviously go again once he's ready.
Shit doesn't have to stop and be some awkward spooning for the rest of the night, seriously avoid this.

Yes, we were together for 2.5 years during which he cheated on me on my birthday and did other bullshit. Terrible first relationship desu

>>17598043
You always will regret sleeping with her. But theres nothing you can do about it. You arent a virgin so you cant be entitled to another virgin anymore. Most infuriating part is that and you have to hate yourself for giving your first time to your gf. Obviously this is going to manifest as resentment towards her because she is the embodiment of your frustration. The only legit means to get over this is to sleep with a bunch of other women.

>>17598043
I've been on the opposite side of things, feel free to ask questions

>>17598180
Thanks, I'm actually the girlfriend who's had a past relationship but it's my boyfriends first. I just wonder if they'll always be some sort of resentment that he hasn't experienced more than one partner.

I guess your relationship didn't last? Did this issue ever become a problem for you two?

>>17598494
Different anon here. Thats a different ballpark in a weird way.
Dudes will ALWAYS have some mixed feelings going in to sex with a multiple partner chick. There's a LOT of pressure on guys to be good at sex via porn, buds, and occasionally even chicks, it's just plain. This means he'll be nervous no matter what and the high chance of him cumming early will just make this worse when it does possibly happen. This will even happen with experienced guys going into it with experienced chicks as now we're gonna worry if we look as good (obviously both genders here), or if our dicks match up(guys commit suicide over this relatively often believe it or not), or if our technique is up to snuff to all the other guys you've fucked.
Best things you can do is reassure him on shit later, not during thats just a self esteem destroyer and by later i mean like a day or so later unless they bring that shit up, guide him gently on things like movements and placement, you might even try guiding him in rather than make him feel like an idiot slipping around for the entrance, and generally telling him what feels good and what feels meh.

As stated above this is actually a good thing as you get to mold everything he does sexually just to fit you without the background radiation of past experiences.

>>17598494
We lasted 3 years bro