I just realize i'm effectively hopeless. I've got

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I had gf with similar issues, I was with her because it was my decision and I wanted it, nothing more. You can look forever but sooner or later you have to pick someone to settle down.

She would always ask me, why me, you can do better, what special do you find in me etc.

She freaked out and did something batshit crazy and crossed the line for good. Then I dumped her. Her insecurity was her only undoing. Her loss, mine too since I'm alone now but mans gotta set the rules and keep em.

>>17596073
What did she do?

>>17596078
Probably cheated on me, or just met this guy to feel more self-worthy, wanted and secure, or just imagined it and made up a story to tell her friends as she tried to explain later. It's enough I found out about it and that was the moment she went into trash.

>>17596099
Ah.

>>17596107
Also it depends on the age. The older you both are the better chances that you are a keeper for her, the younger, well... I still would reader not try to overthink it in your place and just rather focus on giving positive energy into this ship instead of fears and insecurities.

>>17596141
I'm a janitor at a bar, I work 3 days a week making minimum wage, I live with my parents, I have no money for myself after I pay my rent, I have no friends to talk to or hang out with, I could die and the only people that would notice im missing would be my boss and my parents. The only people I've actually talked to in the past two years have been my parents because my job starts and ends when most people are asleep, and the few times I go out in public people actively move out of my way when im walking.

Hell, I was out for a walk listening to music and she ran up to me and asked for my phone number, and I just gave it to her because I figured I could always change my number with one call to Verizon, and just later that day she came and picked me up in her Mercedes benz, took me out to eat, and spent the entire night trying to flirt with me. Then she brought me to her house, not mine, and my first thought was "well this is where I die I guess", but nope, she dragged me into her house, like I was a child playing dead, and told me to stop acting like she was trying to kill me.

It was surreal. A part of me thinks my parents hired her to get me to move out and be an adult, but the fact that my parents were both convinced I was gay makes me think otherwise.

>>17596180
So it's fresh thing?

Well you're not that bad, you have a job, your own life, you can sure stand as someone.

Scenario seems really dreamy though, either you are super lucky or take care.

She might be looking for someone to use, like to spite her ex or play jealousy game on someone. Ore some other shit. It may be even 50/50 for her, she's a woman.

Still, be positive but careful, take as much as you can from it and take it slow so you can react accordingly, universal eternal /adv/.