I feel like I blew it and I have no idea what to do. So me

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2016-09-22 16:24:30 Post No. 17595300
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:24:30 Post No. 17595300 [Report]

I feel like I blew it and I have no idea what to do.

So me and this guy have been 'seeing each other' is what we call it since we are not actually girlfriend + boyfriend but we often do out for dates, drinks, hang out at home. This has maybe been a thing for 2 'months. He is someone who I am really into.

We are both different in ways, the biggest thing is he takes drugs ~ mostly just weed and hash but I have seen him do others, and I do not. My first time smoking weed was in fact with.

SO last night I went out with a girl friend and two boys who she invited, I drank a lot and I even smoked some weed. Later on in the night I invited the guy I was seeing to come down for a few drinks since the pub is close to his house.

By time he came I was very gone. And it got to a point that I was white girl wasted and what it probably feels like to him was I inivted him out to look after me while I throw up all night :(

So I wake up this morning and I just feel like I blew it and isn't so interested in me anymore since I'm just a mess. What do I doooooo :(

Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:27:56 Post No.17595305
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:27:56 Post No.17595305 [Report]

If it bothers you so much id suggest call and say sorry (in a not too serious way, casual) about the night and getting too wasted and thank him for caring for you when you needed it. Nice, simple and may make him feel appreciated.

Nothing worse than a guy or girl who goes quiet.

Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:30:16 Post No.17595312
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:30:16 Post No.17595312 [Report]

>>17595305
Yeah so I texted him as soon as I woke up saying thank you so much and sorry, but he didn't reply to the text.

He only sent a few snapchats to me. :c

Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:30:43 Post No.17595314
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:30:43 Post No.17595314 [Report]

You know that alcohol is a depressant, don't you? It's not uncommon to feel like shit emotionally afterwards.

If you feel bad for bringing him out just to look after you, best get around to telling him that that wasn't the case otherwise he'll see you as needy and may lose interest.

A conversation can settle anything once you open yourself truthfully to him. You can handle it.

Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:33:28 Post No.17595321
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:33:28 Post No.17595321 [Report]

>>17595314
I can't even get him to text back and I don't want to send him lots of texts and look extremely needy :c

Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:38:20 Post No.17595342
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Anonymous 2016-09-22 16:38:20 Post No.17595342 [Report]

>>17595321
Then stop texting him and seek him out face-to-face. Women are more than capable of growing a pair and facing the music.

Go set things right. Do it.

GO!

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