this might sound like a dumb post but hear me out.
>on phone to gf whilst she's walking through town
>sorry anon i have to go
>oh ok no worries, speak to you later
>several minutes later messages me
>oh sorry anon i bumped into a friend
>then sends a message saying "Oh you didn't sound very happy at all when I abruptly ended the call"
>makes a big point about how that somehow made me upset and says "apologies"
FFS man. I'm fed up of her acting like I'm being overly sensitive and assuming things about my reactions and making out like i'm a little bitch.
how do I even respond to this message without sounding insincere and imply that she's acting stupid
Why can't people in relationships handle things maturely?
Just call her up to meet face to face and explain to her exactly how you feel. Tell her you are a men and aren't that overprotective of her. Tell her you aint no bitch.
Just be honest!
"Stop worrying about everything and apologizing for it. If something bothers me I'll let you know."
You should imply that she's acting stupid, because she is and she needs to know it in order to rectify it.
>>17592381
just be like imgonna watch porn while ur out. then she'll be the sad one and you'll be the even happier one.
>>17592381
was that friend a man
>>17592381
just say. I really don't understand, what are you apologizing about?
She was trying to make you jealous, if you really said 'oh ok no worries, speak to you later.' chilled.
>>17592381
this is funny. she's talking to you and sees buff boy friend coming and ditches you quickly. Knows she probably was a bit hasty in dumping you and she felt guilty and trying to make it your fault. She's trying to goad a reaction out of you so she can get pissed at you and tell you how silly you are being.
Ok, OP, I had a lot of situations like that both sides with my bf, bc we're both insecure bitches.
So we had a SERIOUS conversation and decided to have a Month Of Total Honesty, like TOTAL, you don't lie even about littlest things.
You hate the dinner she made? Tell her. You feel upset over some bullshit? Tell her. And the other way around. This way she'll feel much more secure and will be sure that when you tell her something, it's true.
Seriously, works miracles.
>>17592682
this could be a recipe for disaster
>>17592911
honesty is a recipe for disaster? relationships that are based on dishonesty are BOUND to end in a disaster.