Cutting a real long story short 5 years ago I got with a girl

>>17591447
What did she do?

>>17591452
Like she never cheated as far as i know, the only thing she literally did whilst with me is watch porn, i found out because i saw stuff on her phone, she denied, a lot, then said like once, then twice, then a couple of times, then it was only watching blablabla, then i wouldnt even play with myself over it, then finally she just told me when i was not having any of it.
Its these sort of annoyng lies that bug me, its like im cool with it, you already knew i watched it, just fucking tell me dude.

I wont get into the other lies about her past because thats long, but she pretty much twists it and makes it extremely long and hard to get the full story out in the end which makes it fucking awkward and annoying. I am a straight to the point sort of person so her bullshit fucks me off to no end.

>>17591447
You are a woman.

>>17591465
Nope, i´m a guy, i feel like a right idiot if you meant that as an insult instead of a guess on my gender. I guess thats what the anon thing is for.

>>17591460
Youre butthurt she lied about watching porn.
Its like my gf being butthurt I lied about not taking out the trash. If you actually cared about the topic itd be one thing. Like if she lied about a criminal past and you wanted to know. If you dont care about the topic but dislike her lack of honesty that can be worked out if you stop being a little bitch. But if you continue to do so then no it wont be fixed.
Im not saying that you should forgive her for lying, it ruins relationships and Id have ended things on the premise that I cant trust her. But if you are going to stay with her stop being a little bitch and work things out. Try to communicate how much trust matters to you and give her a clean start and inform her that if she still lies then it means you will never be able to trust her and walk away.
If you cant do that now then walk away now. Nothing is worse than acting like a complete faggot in the relationship.

>>17591490
I disagree on being butthurt she lied about watching porn, i just gave it to the anon as an example of how stupid her lies are and how she goes about coming clean with them, im fpmega fucking butthurt about her lies in general, ive had 5 years of this and there is always something. Lying about taking out the trash is small but to me it would bug the hell out of me, like why the fuck would you lie about that? Then twist it after and claim you are being honest for weeks on end when im clearly going to find out and be mad about it and disappointed.

Like i said, we are stuck due to where we live, id rather not go homeless, and splitting up yet living together would be stupid we would still fuck and do bf gf things whilst claiming we are not bf or gf. I just need to find a way to put this shit behind me accept she may or may not still be lying and not care so much.
So wat do

>>17591447
what the hell. the way you set this up I thought she sucked off donkeys for quarters

>>17591515
Ive gone into the detail of the first few years of lies before, thread goes to shit everyone ignores that i cant leave her and advises me to leave her, im trying to find the stupidest examples to get the point across that shes told many lies, the lies domt matter, what does is i cant trust her, hate her for lying, but gotta stay because rent issues.

>>17591447
are the lies only about stuff she's embarrassed to admit (like that porn-thing), or more serious stuff, which can possibly affect your life too?

why is she lying, what's the motivation?
a person usually doesn't lie because it's fun to do.

>>17591521
so if you have already come here and telling us you are not going to do what is suggested why the fuck you here again other than to bitch

>>17591521
>what does is i cant trust her, hate her for lying, but gotta stay because rent issues.
well, then you've broken up with her mentally already.
staying together because of rent is just going to wreck both of you, unless you can work it into a shared-appartment-agreement, but I doubt that's going to be a-ok.

>>17591525
Pretty much yes, embarrasing stuff, i guess she dont tell me because she fears i will leave her, even with my re-assurance, the situation we ar in, and all the other lies i found out and never left her over.

>>17591529
>>17591528
We enjoy chilling together, its just occasionally i remember the shit shes lied about and it fucks with my mind, id love to be with this girl, i sort of have to in our situation, but holy fuck i wish i could stop seeing her as just a liar who fucks shit up instead of just being honest and saving us all this drama and stress