Drama advice pls, love you anon
>27yo
>best friend is lesbian I went through studies with
>she dated that girl during 3 years, that girl (ex) broke up with best friend a year ago because best friend is a coke addict and doesn't want to stop
>we (me, best friend and ex) still meet on a weekly basis for drinks after work
>me and ex don't do coke, only alcohol and weed sometimes
>we've been working together for a year but in November all of us move to different wards
>had that terrible day at work with ex that left ex shocked
>ex says she was so happy to be with me during this hard time cause I'm responsible and I reassured her and comforted her
>end up having sex at my place
>flash forward 2 months
>have sex on a weekly basis, growing feelings for each other
>best friend doesn't know how far we've been but know that we spend private time together
>best friend said she would be fine with us dating
How bad is it to date the ex of your best friend?
If you and the girl are practically a couple, and only your lesbo BFF's ignorance keeps it from being official... and you two WANT it to be official?
If your lesbo bff says she wouldn't mind, then take her word for it. If the lesbo starts re-developing feeling for your girl, then you know what to do, lol.
>>17591042
Tell her to get over it? She's dating someone at the moment btw
Unless this chick is just amazing, which for the sake of argument I'll assume she's not, then you clearly don't value the friendship if you make this move.
Doesn't make you a bad person per say, but just know that it's not a friendship that truly matters to you if you go to these lengths to shag some skank.
>>17591055
Uhm, I think he meant go for a threesome.
That's assuming your dyke friend is even remotely hot.
If her current GF is hot as well, then make it a foursome...
...but then, that's just 4chan bullshit for ya.
>>17591060
Not OP, but the dyke said she'd be okay with it.
Then you throw in the 'skank' based on, well, nothing, lol.
>>17591072
I was being flagrant for no reason, but anyway it doesn't matter who claims to be okay with it at the time. Same thing with threesomes. It's after the positive agreements that things turn to shit.
>>17591075
Hence my thread...
Bleh, it's already done anyway