I'm 29 and a virgin. Is there a point when I should just

>>17590465

Improve yourself, meet girls, fall in love. You are bordering wizardom, losing your virginity with a chubby one, is pretty childish at this point.

well, if it helps, i'm 25, and though i'm bi and had drunk sex with a few women in college, before my current boyfriend (met a year ago), i'd only had traumatic barely-sex with a man on two occasions (like, excruciatingly painful, wasn't sober, can't say it went in). it has taken me months to be able to have partial penetration with my boyfriend without panic attacks. i still haven't quite had "real" sex with a man.

i'm weird as hell but somewhat attractive (thin, big boobs, etc) so people wouldn't normally peg me as someone who has barely had sex. i'm very happy with my boyfriend (who is 28) but would be extremely appreciative of him if he were a virgin. i think women like me exist, women who have sexual trauma, for whom sex is very painful, etc, who would appreciate dating a man who was sexually inexperienced.

it was hard for me to get to normal sex (still not there yet) with my boyfriend and it was awful to think of how he'd had sex with other women normally.

>>17590491
I'm working on improving myself more. Trust me. I'm not sure I want to be a wizard though. haha

>>17590493
I'm sorry about your traumatic sexual experiences. If you told me that before sex though, honestly, it would be a turnoff mentally to me. It's because I would be afraid I couldn't help you in anyway overcome those experiences. Sorry if that sounds weird. You do sound physically attractive and I hope everything works out between you and your boyfriend.

>>17590544


Don't worry about the virgin thing, you don't even have to tell them, just remember that there are plenty of non-virgins who suck in bed.

>>17590552
Thanks anon. I wasn't planning on telling my first sexual partner. I don't think it would be that apparent it's my first time in bed with a woman.