help me
>be me
>know girl since elementary school
>girl tells me she loves me
>too beta to do anything at the time
>wait til last week of school to ask her what she said
>she said she doesn't remember
>split up in highschool
>fast forward 2 years
>hit her up via fb
>get small conversation started
>have to send second message after shit started to get her to respond
>she responds, saying sorry
>send another message, she doesn't even read it
>assume she ignored due to her having a bf at the time
>conversation ends, dont talk again for years
>fast forward another 2 years
>all this time she's been liking my fb posts, even shitty profile self shots
>match on tinder
>start conversation
>i take a day to respond to match, she takes another day to respond to message etc
>i've sent the last message, it's been 3 days
just what's going on here? why does she go out to get my attention then pretty much almost ignore me? am i being crazy? did i do something or is she just hot and cold? what do i do lads?
I'm not even necesarily obsessed with her, this shit just boggles my mind, and i just want to give it a shot.
could she just have forgotten? should i just send her another message? or is she just fucking with me?
>>17590249
btw im not unmatched or unfriended or anything. there was hardly a converstation. should i just talk to her about it on fb?
>>17590249
That's a weird situation dood, probably best to just move on though my interpersonal communication experience doesn't go much farther than study groups and jerking off alone in my room.
>>17590400
Just tell me straight up.
By the way that I've described the scene, do I sound crazy?
>>17590455
Yes
>>17590471
So am I wrong to assume so much?
>>17590455
>Just tell me straight up.
I wrote all that bullshit to illustrate that I'm probably not the man you want for advice on social matters. Better than letting your thread die(maybe?)
That said, it's never worth putting a big amount of time or thought into something that leads to nothing but frustration unless you have a way to end the frustration.