Socially and mentally/psychologically, is it healthy to fap to

Porn is unhealthy for most people. For most people, it warps expectations of sex.

Alternatives are always better.

>>17589986
Yeah but I'm fapping to someone I'm going to work in class with until December. If I don't somehow seduce her with my virgin magic wouldn't all the fapping make me awkward?

Note: I'm restraining myself as I type this.

>fapping to thoughts

she's going to know and you'll start getting creepier and creepier to her

>>17589992

take some creepshots, thats what i do. dont have to remember until later in the day, and i get some of the biggest loads looking at the asses of girls i know

>>17590119
Yeah, that's what I thought, though I want to go out with her and see how it goes from there, including boning, but if fapping to her gets in the way and makes me creepy then I'd rather fap to nothing.

>>17590119
lol wat

I've fapped to the thought of so many people. nobody is going to know your thoughts. just don't be creepy, and it's fine. i've fapped to my boss (she is hot as hell) many times, and i've fapped to my best friend many times (she's a qt, but has a bf)

if you don't change how you act around them, why on earth would they even suspect anything??

>>17590181
I think his post makes sense if you replace 'and' with 'because', that's the way I saw it. Either way, nice to have another person's perspective on this.

Has your behavior changed around them at all since you started getting off to them?

>>17590187
I jerked off to peoples facebook photos and would see them the next day and it wouldnt even be in my head. Just dont start staring at them, youll give them a creepy vibe

>>17590214
So you don't feel less/more confident/assertive around them or anything?

Last bump

are you supposed to fap to the thought of your crush? That's considered normal?

>>17590187
nah m8 my behaviour hasn't changed around them. it wasn't even really a regularly occurring thing, but it happened more than once.

currently i have a girl that likes to help me masturbate on cam so i haven't had to think of anything else for a while.

>>17590464
>are you supposed to fap to the thought of your crush? That's considered normal?
I dunno, I just had an urge to fap to her instead of porn. Mostly wanted to know if that'd fuck me up if it became a recurring thing.

If I fap to the thought of my crush fucking another guy does that make me a cuck?

>>17589979

i always like to imagine that the referee molests the little boy in the locker room after this. he just looks at him like 'ur basicallya girl now'

>>17590556
yes