Guise wut do. I actually just succesfully went on a second official

>>17582802
go on a third official date

>>17582805
Oh I will, but how can I incorporate those into it. These are literally my first dates ever and this chick really seems to dig me, plus she's super attractive.

>>17582802

Have you "made contact" yet? Hugged? Put you arm around her shoulders? Something like that?

>>17582815
hug her when you pick her up
go for the kiss when you drop her off

>>17582815
Congratulations OP!

>>17582825
She let me use her pillow, then used as soon as I woke up, she hugged me once a week ago, she's grabbed my arms and hands quite a few times. That's about it. I've known her for like three weeks.

>>17582827
Seems iffy, plus my univeristy scares the shit out of us with the whole "consent" thing
>>17582832
Thanks m8, this is one of the best times of my life

>>17582839
you'll be able to tell as you go in for the kiss whether or not she's down for it
if she leans in go for it, if she doesn't, then don't

>>17582833

That's good. Work from there. Hold each other sitting or lying on bed. Then go for the kiss. Don't rush things, you re doing good.

>>17582850
How do I end up close to her face though? We're either feet from eachother at a table or side to side when walking her home.

>>17582855

That's why you need more contact before the kiss.

>>17582852
The thing is, we haven't once discussed our relationship or feelings. We're just kind of awkwardly progressing. We obviously both have an interest in one another, but it seems like we're both a little cautious to do anything. She actually accidentally called today's dinner a date, I've never phrased it as a date to her. Maybe I should take her somewhere nice and call it one? She's pretty shy

>>17582855
you get to her door
you turn to face her when you say good night
you lean in for the kiss

>>17582870
>I've never phrased it as a date to her
ignore all my previous advice
you haven't been on a first official date yet, so make that your top priority

>Maybe I should take her somewhere nice and call it [a date]
do this asap

>>17582870

Doesn't matter if it's called a "date" or not. Actions speak louder than words. DO stuff, don't SAY stuff.

>>17582879
Can do

>>17582891
This is good advice, thank you. I patted her shoulder twice and told her to "study hard" and she giggled. I suppose she kind of wants it too

>>17582912

Of course! People enjoy contact with those they like.

>>17582926
I'll very slowly but surely break that barrier then, thanks. I'll try a hug after an actual date. She kept showing me calluses she got on her hands and I'm thinking she wanted me to feel them or something. I'm pretty dense

>>17582938

Haha! I usually talk about "reading palms" so girls offer their hands. We both know I'm making shit up.

One mentioned how "uneven" he nail polish was and offered her hand so I could "feel it".

It's a pretty common cue for more contact.

>>17582938
>I'm pretty dense

you aren't dense at all
you knew what she was trying to do with it
you're just nervous and it's understandable

>>17582945
Fuck, I need to be more perceptive. I'm just baffled that not onlt does a girl show so much interest in me, but she's attractive and kind to boot. I REALLY don't want to fuck this up

>>17582951

It's fine to fuck it up. Have fun with it, and go as long as it lasts.

But remember that part: Have fun. If you are not having fun, it's not good for you.

>>17582966
I'm having the time of my life. Thanks man

Self-help sets you free.