My girlfriend (it's complicated) has a homosexual drug addict

bump 4 advice on how to open her eyes

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>>17582691

1. Accept that he is her brother and regardless of what he's going through she will never give up on him.

2. Encourage her to not enable him without any anger or patronization. She realizes she's enabling him. She realizes he has a problem but she's stuck between a rock on a hard place. Thats how it always goes for people that have loved ones addicted to drugs.

Its important that she stop helping him but also important that the withdrawal of enabling is geared towards helping him treat his addiction, not just for the sake of spite.

Understand that its easy for you to call him a piece of shit and dismiss him because he isn't your brother but this is someone she's grown up with and had to go through the pain of watching his life fall apart because of drugs.

Be helpful but be sensitive.

>>17582731
thank you sir/ma'am

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>>17582731
not that this is bad

>>17582691
Break up with her. You think it's bad now? It'll only get worst from here on out. You will lose a shitton of money, dignity, and time in this relationship.

>>17582795
were not officially together right now because i broke up with her over this and other shit. I love her, though. I'm in love with her and I want to be with her but i can't stand this bullshit with her brother.

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