I'm irritating, selfish, depressed, lazy and just don't know how to change. I don't even know how my friends can stand me, and i'm quite sure some of em actually can't and are just faking. Please help.
>>17580990
>>17580990
Go to a neurological doctor and do brain surgery.
>>17580990
"Happiness is based on the quality of your thoughts," -MA.
That's probably the first place to start, OP. Sounds like you have a long way to go, but self-doubt is one of your biggest issues. Just look in the mirror and tell yourself that you want to be happy, and if you really do, you'll start slowly changing (with your intiative, of course). Don't be so negative, no one likes complainers, always try to enable others to success instead of drag them down with you, tell yourself that you have value, and if you don't starting making yourself valuable then.
Last of all, never judge yourself as either good or bad in a general sense, like everyone says to have a "positive or high esteem always,". Instead, judge yourself on whatever specific actions you take. Like if you see a qt girl and ask her out, even if you fail, consider itself as a net positive action because you broke out of your barrier to do it.
>>17581089
But do remember that he also needs an education if he wants to actually break his inferiority complexes. He needs to be learn to be proactive, common sensical, educated in his speech.
Not some obnoxious herpa derpa redneck reading off some science book and pretending he understands what it means and then ask himself why nobody likes him and why he only attracts degenerates.
The thing is to actually improve. Not pretend you're improving, go into full denial and then become an arrogant uncaring dick.
>>17581036
>>17581077
Epic
>>17581089
I try not to bring people down with my attitude, and that's what brings my being irritating. I somehow end up taking too much intimacy while joking and saying bad puns that aren't even fucking funny but i say to don't end up being a tomb or a depressing butthole.