I've been talking to a girl for about a month. She's been leaving strong hints that she likes me and I want to aks her out but
advantages:
>has phd
>100k a year programming job
>26 and still a virgin
>accepts my autism
>smart, nice and caring
>christian
downsides:
>wants me to get a job and degree (I've been neet all my life)
>fat
>ugliest nose ever
>lives in another town so at first it will be long distance then I'll have to move
>very possessive and jealous
>her family divorced when she was in hs
>doesn't like that I'm not more taller than her (I'm only slighty taller and she sometimes wears heels)
>won't put out till marriage
What should I do?
>>17574953
dump her and move on
>>17574953
Up to you OP
>>17574966
but I'm a 25yo KV what if this is my last chance?
>>17574953
Dude being a christian is definitely not an advantage. If she's nice, then she's nice and that's great. If she's awful, then she's awful; it has nothing to do with her religion.
That said, the fact that she is a christian is probably gonna mean she's self righteous to an annoying degree, and also very close minded. That'll probably get annoying quick.
>>17574953
dump her, you are so close becoming a mighty wizard
>>17574953
If you wanna ask her out, just do it. See how it goes.
Pursue other women and keep contact with her to satiate your ego.
>>17574953
why are people making problems where there are none?
>>17574953
If she's great then why not? Doesn't sound like you give yourself much credit to begin with. So like, what better options do you have? It sounds like she'd be a good influence in your life.
>>17574997
>religion dont matter its just a social construct durrrrrr
People who believe this are just butthurt athiests. Religion dramatically alters the behavior of people, because they see their own behavior through the lens of the bible.
Being a "good" person is always subject to whatever is good by societies standards. Somebody who lives by the standards of the bible will be scared to lie to their spouse. Marriage is also seen as something that is used to glorify God, so (serious) Christians are more likely to try and make their relationship work because it isn't just about self serving pleasure, as the atheist sees it.
Fuck her then dump her
>>17575736
they can also be more slutty