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A girl from Tinder is obsessed with me and I'm not sure

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Kind of long story but I desperately need advice.

I have tinder, however I mostly use it as a platform to just make new friends. I'm a straight dude but I set my interests to guys and girls just to maximize the amount of potential new friends. I have never really made any friends from Tinder however I do find it fun swiping left and right when I'm trying to kill time.

Anyway the other day I matched with this girl who was apparently less than a mile away. She's not objectively ugly or anything, however she doesn't really seem like my type and I'm not really attracted to her. I mostly just swiped right because we have a few similar interests in common.

So I added her on Snapchat and tried talking to her about some of these things we have in common and she really didn't seem interested. She just kept telling me I'm attractive and stuff. It quickly became apparent to me that she was only interested in me for my looks (which I don't even think are that good). I decided it was best to not talk to her too much, I'd reply to whatever she says to me but I'll never message her first, didn't wanna lead her on or anything.

Last night I went out with some friends and got pretty drunk. When we got back to my place I put a dumb video on my snapchat story of me screwing around in my underwear. This girl obviously saw this and immediately messaged me requesting to see my dick. Now I'm 19 but I am a virgin and I honestly have very little interest in sex, I had never sent many nudes before and the ones I have sent where to (female) friends who live in other countries and not really of a sexual nature either.

She keeps nagging me for dick picks and at this point my friends are asleep downstairs on the sofa. Not gonna lie all this attention was kind of turning me on. Plus she was already sending me nudes too. And so in a stupid drunk decision I decided to show her my dick and I ended up sending videos of myself jacking off and cumming too.

Will post the rest below + a TL;DR
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Part 2:

Anyway I immediately felt dirty and regretted sending her those snapchats, however she of course loved it and started talking about meeting up for sex soon. Remember I said I was a virgin and I really didn't want this to be my first time having sex so I declined.

So I woke up this morning still feeling kind of gross, when she messages me on snapchat again. It's just normal stuff at first, I told her I regretted sending her that stuff last night and that I wouldn't have done so if I where not drunk. But then she sends a picture of her crotch and asks what I'm wearing. I showed her just a T Shirt and jeans and she started asking me to take it off. She was begging to see my (frankly unimpressive) dick again and send me videos of her touching her pussy.

This time, being sober I refused to send her pictures but she just kept going on and on. She keeps messaging me about meeting up to fuck which I don't want. She constantly wants to see me jacking off and the worst part is she lives less than a mile away. She lives in the same small town as I do. I'm actually worried to leave the house at this point because I'm worried I'll see this sex crazed freak.

Look, I realize this must sound great for some people. Most virgins my age would just at the chance to fuck anyone. But I'm honestly not into that stuff and all this is making me very very uncomfortable. It's one thing to have girls on /soc/ rate me but this is actually a real life thing now and it's making me super anxious. I can't go to my friends about this they wouldn't understand and I don't want to have to explain it to my parents either. I need advice guys what do I do?

TL;DR: A girl from Tinder lives very very uncomfortably close to me and she wants to meet up to have sex. I'm not interested but she keeps persisting and I'm worried I'll see her if I leave my house. (I think she may live in the same neighborhood as me even)

pics somewhat related, they're me
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Just block her and cut contact. Any attention you give her, and I mean any, you could tell her to fuck off, will be motivation for her to keep trying to talk to you. Your best bet is to not give her that attention.
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>>17563883
I thought about doing this, it seems a bit harsh but it might be my only option soon. The only problem is that I might see her in real life. Remember she lives very close to me. Blocking her is basically like saying "fuck you" and it gives her a reason to hate me. Which I normally wouldn't care about but she had pictures of my dick and apparently also knows my sister, so I really don't want to upset her just because I don't want her doing anything crazy as "revenge".

Having said that the nude pictures where taken on Snapchat and it didn't say she screenshotted them so I doubt she still has them to send to anyone. Blocking her is probably my best bet then.
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>>17563790
>>17563815
you know instead of posting your pics like an asshole you could post her pics
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>>17563916
No because the only pics I have of her are from her facebook and I know some fucker on here will do some reverse image search shit to find her facebook account and just make this situation worse for me. It is just safer not to post any pics of her. Also I'm not posting her nudes because this is a SFW board and I didn't even screenshot them anyway.
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>>17563896
Is your face in those pics? Deny deny deny.

Also while there is a possibility of seeing her, it's not as great as you think it is. Quit over thinking. If something does happen to where she escalates to crazy stalker levels, then you involve the police. There is no being mean or harsh. You don't want her in your life plain and simple, if she's too dense to take a hint then that's her own fault. Just cut contact
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>>17563921
My face thankfully is not in those pics. However it would be obvious to anyone who knows me that they where taken in my bedroom.

But thanks for the advice man, I think I'll take it. All I can really do is hope that it doesn't escalate to crazy stalker levels because I really don't want to get police involved, because I feel like that in turn would get my family involved. But hopefully it'll be fine. I'll block her and with luck she'll understand I don't want anything to do with her.
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Just fuck her dude
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>>17563931
This
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>>17563931
It doesn't appeal to me though. I would only fuck someone who I've been in a long term relationship with, and even then it isn't something I would feel like I'd particularly enjoy. Sex just seems kind of gross to me and if I'm ever going to do it it's not going to be with some random ass hoe I found on Tinder.
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>>17563919

If you Print-Screen the Facebook pictures and paste them in paint and save as a desktop image you can't reverse Google search.

Don't believe me, then try it yourself.
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>>17563955
i knew that but there is no point man, she's nothing special. Pretty ugly now that I think about it.
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>>17563957

yeah so you should show a picture. Because your story was interesting. So I'm geninely curious to see this type of sex crazed girl who faps to you.

I've been using Tinder for 3 years and NEVER found anyone like that
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>>17563960
ugh okay sure whatever. This is her, kinda chubby, idk some people might be into that. I didn't find her very attractive at all.
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>>17563962

yeah I probably wouldn't have sex with her either
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>>17563962
Yuh, block that shit OP you were right
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>>17563966
Just out of interest, do you think most virgins my age would? she's 22 btw
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>>17563968
No
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>>17563970
I guess that helps. Makes me feel less weird about not wanting to fuck her.
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>>17563968

well, I know people who definitely would bang her. When I was a virgin I probably would have just because I was a desperate 21 year old at the time, but even tho I haven't had sex in 6 years, I would not do it now
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>>17563962
High test thiccness. Would smash without a second though. I have no clue why everyone is pretending the only thing they're into are blond-haired, blue-eyed beanpoles. The thought of a woman like that makes me want to vomit, honestly.
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>>17563977
I agree with that last statement dude. I'm not attracted to that kind of woman either. I have a very particular taste in women. "blond-haired, blue-eyed beanpoles" and this girl both disgust me evenly.
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>>17563977

found the fatty
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>>17563986
I really am not. Must have been the unusual amount of porn I consumed as a teenager, but there is almost no body type I do not find attractive. The jab I made at "thin aryan women" was just for fun.
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I think you have a cute face and I like your hair :3 ~ next time don't flirt with fat chicks they're all bottom tier and sometimes crazy.
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>>17563968

100% yes
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>>17563962

I dunno, 6/10, maybe higher with a better photo.

I lost my virginity to a drunk 30-something who picked me up in a bar. Then again, snapchat girls behavior is pretty intense, so, hard to say if it would be better.

Also, are you sure you're buddies aren't fucking with you? Rando girl pops up and sweats your dick super hard? Sure it happens I guess, but >>17563960 makes a good point.

ps - my roomates buddies catfished the shit out of him as a prank in college.
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>>17563931
this
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>>17564430
Thanks for the compliments! They're very much appreciated. I wasn't really intending to flirt with her I was just kind of being nice then I got drunk and shit happened. But yeah, lesson learned. Fat chicks are crazy.

>>17564536
I'm 100% sure my friends aren't fucking with me. I mean, at the very least I know they're not catfishing me. She's a real person I know that much. Also I don't really have any irl friends aside from those two I went out drinking with. And I know they wouldn't do that to me.
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>>17563955
Nice b8 bro
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>>17564563
Idk bruh. She only sends you messages and the only pics you got are from FB? Also her face is manlet and you seem way out in the stars. I had one tinder fuck and she wanted my dick hard, it was pretty nice. Definitely rememberable but not as rememberable as bday sex with my first gf
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>>17563962
>>17563968
Tbh you're about the same level of attractiveness. Of course neckbeards who have only ever seen naked women on 4chan and experienced sex once (maybe) in the dark with Betty are going to say "no."
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>>17564430
>ugly girl trying to hop on dat dick
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>>17564605
>Of course neckbeards who have only ever seen naked women on 4chan and experienced sex once (maybe) in the dark with Betty are going to say "no."
are you one of those or are you a triggered uggo ?
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>>17564625
I'm a girl but definitely not ugly. There's a 9/10 chance you are, though. OP and the neckbeards can have their opinions, that was my opinion on them.
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>>17564605
>>17564645
/thread
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>>17563962
Ew that chin. You could do way better.
You seem like a super nice guy, is it possible that you're being a little too kind and she's misunderstanding? Just reply with the most minimal responses you can think of and eventually stop responding.
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>>17564645
>>17564675


Well looks like I hit too close to home, see what gave you away is that there's no one else who would be hostile towards people calling an ugly girl posted here "ugly". You know how people are triggered when they feel someone attacked something they identify themselves with ?
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