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I don't know what happened. Over the past few weeks i got

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I don't know what happened. Over the past few weeks i got really close with this girl, we were really good friends. Then last week i felt a lot of coldness from her, as if she was upset at me. She was ignoring me and walking right past me withiut saying anything. I tried to talk to her and see whwt was up but got no feedback. So i sent her a message this morning asking if she was okay

>im fine
>are you sure? You've been a bit distant i just want to make sure things are alright, we're cool yeah

>please just leave me alone anon

I don't get it, we were getting real close now she hates me all of a sudden?
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This is that hassle people are always talking about.

A lot of people have decided it's not worth it, and just retreated to porn.
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Shes either testing you or is a cunt. Either way just try not to give a shit and move on
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>>17559912
She probably realized you wanted more from her than just friendship and since she doesn't want to outright reject you, she's ghosting or at least trying to.

That or you fucked up with something, made a stupid comment she took personal, someone else talked shit about you to her, or it has nothing to do with you at all. Either way, no one can tell you why she's acting that way other than her and she doesn't want you to know.

Leave her alone.
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>>17560035
Also there's a chance she's into someone else and thinks being close with you might ruin that.
Either way there are plenty of possible explanations why she acts the way she does.
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why does she have to be such a child about it though? I've always told all my friends to be super straightforward with me, and I've always been straightforward with them.

If she didn't want to tell me what was up I'd understand, but the fact that she's ignoring me and being a fucking loon is frustrating.
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>>17560047
the feels have always been one way, she has never given a shit but you didn't get it. she needs to shut it totally down so you go away. go away
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>>17559912
A chick I had been spending time with for months, going to movies together, staying up late just chatting or playing board games etc, did the same shit to me out of the blue.
I waited for a while, but eventually I just deleted her contact info and I haven't heard from her since. I suggest you do the same. Cutting off that sort of people is better in the long run, because otherwise it will keep nagging on your mind.

Just delete all contact info you have of her, and treat her the way she treats you. It is better in the long run. She won't tell you why she started giving you the cold shoulder anyways, so why bother with her?
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>>17560047
>why does she have to be such a child about it though?

Because she is a woman.
Women have the emotional maturity of children, and most do their damnest to simply ignore or avoid confronting anything directly. She will not tell you what her problem is, because that would actually require her to confront that problem face to face, instead of avoiding it like a spineless coward.
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Heh, I just went through something extremely similar. We had been dating though, and she dumped me a few days later.

Her reasons were all valid, but I still think she might've cheated on me. I'm choosing not to believe that though, because what difference would it actually make?
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