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> Ask a girl I barely know for drinks, said yes
> On the day asks if I want to go to her place instead of pub, sounds good
> Chatting, laughing, drinking, movies. The usual
> Offered for me to sleep over instead of walking home, slept on sofa
Never done anything casual and I got out a LT relationship eight months ago so not really clued up with dating. This girl was cool so would prefer to see how it goes instead of just a fling. Didn't really get any signs other than it was a good night and the invites to come over/stay (made it clear I was sleeping on couch). We spoke briefly afterwards, but she stopped responding but has liked stuff on fb.
Not sure if I should have made a move or if I just got friend-zoned though?
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Seems to me like you're pretty clearly friend-zoned at this point. Sorry mate.
Switching the venue to her place might have been her way of making it less of a "date." And making you sleep on the couch is a pretty clear sign. Maybe if you had made a move she would have been receptive; tough to say.
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You should have made a move. Sorry for your missed opportunity.
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OP here, what should I have actually done though?
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You should have made a move. She invited you over. You should have put your arm around her on the couch or gone for a kiss or something. You wussed out.
Pick up the pieces, learn from it, and move on
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How long has she stopped responding for?
If it hasn't been long, I don't agree with these guys. A girl you barely know inviting you over and letting you sleep over seems like a really good sign. Sure, she didn't invite you to share her bed, but not everyone does that on a first date.
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