Did becoming physically fit help you get a hot fwb or girlfriend

>What advice would you give any man who's trying to become fit just to hook up with women ?

Nice fedora- stop doing things for women, start doing them for yourself.

A trend I've noticed among the guys who seem to never be in a relationship is that any time they talk to girls, they always put them on a pedestal by listening to their every word and responding to them like they're dudes.

I remember one time my friend from the Virgin Islands and I took an Uber back from a casino and these two pretty attractive girls picked us up. I have a pretty easy time with girls because I'm a goof so I wasn't really trying but my friend was really getting into it. My friend almost never directly responded to the girls, instead just saying what he wanted to talk about. The conversation never delved into awkwardness because my friend refused to follow the logical path of conversation that the girls tried to lay forth. At the end of the ride both the girls (both of them. seriously.) gave him their number, and you know what my friend told me? He didn't even fucking take down their numbers. lmao.

Don't put girls on a pedestal. You're the guy, you're the dominant, leading force, act like it.

>>17556816
MOAR

>>17556827
Dude it really is just that simple. He and I constantly look for opportunities to throw the conversation in a completely new and unexpected direction, people love that shit. No one really cares about your opinion of whatever situation you're in, or the weather, or whatever bullshit you have to use to break the silence. It is just something to break the silence.

It's hard to explain the methodology because there isn't a set guideline to being le randumb. But you can definitely go overboard with it by not connecting the topics you're switching to, which kills the effect. My go-to is stories from my past that pop up in my head whenever we talk about normal stuff. I'm a decent story teller so I can take any old bland story with some relevance and make the conversation funny, but my friend is much better at the random approach because he can pull from pop culture like movies and tv shows (I'm not a pop culture nut so I can't) and draw upon his audience's knowledge of pop culture to make connections that way. You can do it however you want, just learn to swing the conversation into your court. People will respect you for being a character and girls will dig your confidence (by ignoring their silence-breakers).

I am pretty tall, 191cm/6'3 and getting some muscle on me helped me immensly, but there is a limit to where it begins to look fake.

Women have braincomputers that tell them ABORT ABORT ABORT if your body looks fake, they literally want ottermode (not super defined) or slightly chubby if you have a large frame. I've figured that all you need is for your body to have visible muscles so that you don't look emaciated, they appreciate HEALTH most of all.

A variety of physical activity is best for this result, weightlifting as a sport is ok but getting that gym body is just a waste of time.

Read this and see:
http://foxhoundstudio.com/blog/fitness-lifestyle/the-ideal-male-physique-%E2%80%94-what-girls-want-want-guys-want-to-be/

>>17556858
And this >>17556827 isn't even my attitude in routine conversation. It's just a tool I use to spice up boring situations or turn a night out into a constant party. You can conduct yourself normally then just throw wrenches in the gears whenever you're bored. Win win for everyone involved.

>>17556795
>What advice would you give any man who's trying to become fit just to hook up with women ?
get fit if YOU want it.
doing it for something or somebody else inevitably leads to disappointment.

>>17556797
>Nice fedora- stop doing things for women, start doing them for yourself.

That's like saying:
>stop doing things for money, start doing them for yourself

Buttfuck retarded first reply to a thread that turned out well anyway.

>>17556880
Everything you've said and this. Once you start allowing yourself to be a "character" (because it should be more like letting go of your inhibitions than forcing yourself to be zany) you'll be shocked at how positively people respond to you.

>>17556795
getting in shape doesn't get you laid, /fit/ will tell you all about that

If you like weight training go ahead, but don't do it for women. Do the things you like to do and the girls will come to you.

When I became fit I got compliments a few times but it all comes down to your mentality, and personality.