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My best friend wants to move out of his parents' place with me, but I absolutely do not want to do that for the following reasons:
1. He doesn't have a license or a car and doesn't plan on getting either. (He actually had a car provided to him by his wealthy family but still didn't go through with getting a license)
2. Because of #1 he expects me to drive him everywhere, which I kind of already do and it's really annoying. (I don't mind helping out a friend but I shouldn't be depended on so much - plus, he hardly wants to actually hang out with me and I feel like I'm just being used for rides at this point)
3. He's really messy, pretty simple reason.
4. I honestly don't even want to be friends with him anymore because I feel like I'm being treated by a doormat. He's really harsh and judgmental towards me so I can't even trust and confide in him, which makes me feel extremely alone.
5. It's basically going to be like taking care of a child which I don't want at all.
How can I say no without hurting his feelings?
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treated like a*
wtf
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Tell him the truth, tell him some of the reasons that you told us. Say it straight out, maybe it will open his eyes, and if it doesn't, that his loss
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Tell him. Tell him everything you wrote here. Hurt his fucking feelings, it'll help him in the long run. Maybe he'll realize he's a big baby and do something about it. Of course he's going to act like a child if everyone around him, even his friends, treat him like a child and avoid telling him the truth because it might hurt his feelings. People get their feelings hurt, get over it and occasionally learn something out of it, this is how life works.
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If he's a grown man ready to move out then he can handle the truth. You could also just say nothing and start looking for other people to room with.
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Thanks, y'all
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