So this was about 3 months ago, there's this girl at school, let's call her Dani. I had a crush on and told a mate about her.
Long story short, he told her best friend and I've been getting weird looks from her classmates since then, while Dani did her best not to look at me.
Her best friend told me I should just go talk to her etc. Which I refused to do, since I wasn't really sure I actually wanted to.
This went on for about a month and after that Dani seemed kinda annoyed everythime she saw me, with her classmates sorta like making fun of her with 'look who's there'.
So I figured I talk to Dani and get this over with. I told Dani the entire situation is not what it seemed.
Didn't really solve anything, so a few days later early before school and the last day before summer holiday, I asked if she wanted to hang out sometime.
She made up some excuses blah blah so basically she refused. Didn't see her after that, as she wasn't in the school canteen that day.
Didn't really care about it, didn't see her for two months.
Fast forward: Yesterday, I walked into the school canteen and almost immidiatly her classmates were looking at me like I was a convicted murderer or something.
Dani wasn't there, but it did make me feel uncomfortable the way there were constantly looking at me and whispering.
I don't want anything to do with her and don't care that she rejected me, but how can I her classmates to leave me alone?
I'll likely see her and her classmates again next Friday, and don't want the same thing to happen.
I'm 19 and she's 18. We're both prolly a 7/10. Pic unrelated.
>>17553257
Tough it out. Eventually they'll get bored and leave you alone. The best course of action is not giving them more things to talk about. So don't fight with them about it, etc.
>>17553257
Don't give a fuck about what they think. Simply.
Bored people who don't have shit going for them cling on things going on for others.
>>17553296
P.S: All of you are too old for this shit.
>>17553296
>>17553299
Let's not go overboard, though. OP did fuck up.
He clearly had a shot and didn't take it. He gave "blue balls", so to speak, to her, so yeah, she being annoyed with him is understandable.
Her friends might be bitches, but OP should learn from this.
>>17553305
Normally I just approach whoever I want, but in this case I didn't want to. Not because I was scared, I just didn't care. I figured it would die eventually, but only got worse. So yeah, I fucked up.
>>17553317
And your friend is the main asshole, too. Why did he even go to tell her friend?
So yeah, it's pretty much everyone's fault. Your friend, yours, her friends, and hers for taking it personally.
Bunch of assholes.