So I think I may either be aesexual or have performance anxiety,

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2016-09-09 19:44:43 Post No. 17550607
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Anonymous 2016-09-09 19:44:43 Post No. 17550607 [Report]

So I think I may either be aesexual or have performance anxiety, probably the latter but I dunno

Had three sexual experiences in my existence of 20 years with the same girl and couldn't get it up in any of them. I was super beat up and embarrassed every time and it pretty much scared me out of dating. What sucks is that I genuinely enjoy dating and getting to know a person, but its always inevitable that it always culminates to fucking, which I don't want to fuck up if I'm with someone I truly love. Not to mention I'm into fat chicks but will also date skinny chicks, so I'd be scared that if they weren't fat I wouldn't even have a chance of boning them because of my degenerate tastes (though maybe taking a break from porn could potentially fix that).

I dunno, I want to get back out there but I'm too afraid of having to have sex, if I'm being blunt. Believe me, I would if I could, but the fear of future failure is pretty high.

Anonymous 2016-09-09 20:06:06 Post No.17550687
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>>17550607
What the fuck do you want OP? An asexual gf or getting over your performance anxiety?

Anonymous 2016-09-09 20:52:28 Post No.17550853
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Anonymous 2016-09-09 20:52:28 Post No.17550853 [Report]

>>17550687
Considering the former would probably be impossible to find in a desirable form, I should probably find a way to get over the performance anxiety

Anonymous 2016-09-09 23:29:05 Post No.17551358
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Anonymous 2016-09-09 23:29:05 Post No.17551358 [Report]

>>17550607
Stop being a pussy, perhaps?

Anonymous 2016-09-10 00:49:02 Post No.17551577
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 00:49:02 Post No.17551577 [Report]

You're gay.

Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:05:02 Post No.17551617
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:05:02 Post No.17551617 [Report]

>>17551577
Dicks are gross though

Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:11:18 Post No.17551633
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:11:18 Post No.17551633 [Report]

>>17550607
Look up CBT and try an online program for it

If that doesn't work, go to a therapist

Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:48:45 Post No.17551719
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:48:45 Post No.17551719 [Report]

>>17551633
Would you recommend a specific one?

Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:57:35 Post No.17551746
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 01:57:35 Post No.17551746 [Report]

I probably tried to fuck 6 or 7 times before I was hard enough to actually stay inside to make myself cum.

For me, I think condomns are alot of the issue. And for your first time, putting it on and staying hard is difficult (atleast for me).

Anonymous 2016-09-10 06:43:11 Post No.17552540
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Anonymous 2016-09-10 06:43:11 Post No.17552540 [Report]

>>17551746
Any recommendations on how to avoid losing hardness?

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