What do i do /adv/? >i have degenerate shitty fetishes >they

>>17549865
Are you gay or a grill?

>>17549867
Grill

>>17549870
what is your kink?

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>>17549870
>girl with more degenerate fetishes then guy
Well that's a first

>>17549865
No fap is the answer, trust. Or at least no porn vids or images at all. Should be better in some weeks, months worst case, but if u wanna change it'll be worth it.

You're right of course, this is a silly thing to end a relationship over. You can keep your jack off material separate from your sex life with the other person. That's what I do...

>>17549880
you'd be surprised lol

also op if you don't mind divulging, I'd love to know what fetishes we're dealing with here, just out of curiosity. You won't be receiving any judgement from me I'm sure, I've browsed /d/ since I was like 15

>husband only likes very vanilla stuff, doesn't even watch porn much at all
>he doesn't even like the idea of me using a vibrator or watching porn
>I'm a deviant who wants to try all sorts of weird shit and watches weird porn
Almost same boat op, life is suffering but I love him and he's great to me. :^/

>I'm into shit
Just kill me.

>>17549865
You're going to need to be more specific about what your fetishes are if you really want my opinion. I'll list out my own shortly if you want.

That said- I think it's kinda fucked he's not willing to cater to your kinks. My biggest turn-on is getting my boyfriend worked up. If it's something he likes, I'll do it, regardless of if I'm into it or not. I've worn ridiculous outfits, slapped him, choked him, spit on him, etc. None of which I'm particularly jazzed about. We're both kinda into being dominated, so we switch off.

>>17550010
Couple of the more odd things I'm into: Hitler mustaches, the mask from Scream, clown noses... noses in general. The jumpsuits mechanics wear.

My first boyfriend shaved his mustache into a Hitler and parted his hair once as a joke- and then I realized it suuuuper turned me on. Since then I've pretty much convinced every guy I've dated to do it for me at least once. ONE guy however was apparently horrified by the fact that I'm halfJew and into the Hitler stache, but he sucks, so fuck em.

One of my first sex dreams ever was about the guy from Scream chasing me, and me basically stopping him from killing me by fucking him instead. I now have a weird thing for the ghostface mask AND Matthew Lillard.

One of my old boyfriends had a goofy large Adrien Brody-like nose; which I admitted to him that I wanted to fuck when I was drunk. He let me sit on his face and fuck his nose and it was the best thing ever- he also found he enjoyed it.

I don't know if your stuff is in the same category of retarded, but you're gonna have to spill if you want honest answers/advice.

>>17550031
You're just a prev who likes the victim role. Nothing strange about it. You're just a girl.

Poor guy who's nose you fucked. Didn't he choke?

>>17550042
yeah, it's standard themes, but the specific stuff is odd. And the Hitler thing I actually liked to make them beg for it and roughed them up somewhat. Power to the people man. Though I'm not sure where the nose-fucking fits in all of this.

And no, he didn't choke haha. He was into it. He initiated it a couple times after that, but I'm sure he would've indulged me regardless.

>>17550067
So you also like to dom them if you rough them up?

Your pussy must smell mesmerising then. Lol

>>17550010
Don't you mind that the guy who you submit to is so pathetic sometimes?

haha op I think the stuff you're into is so weird it's charming. You should encourage your bf more. Especially is he's a damn furry, he has no right to complain

>>17550075
Vaginas are gross in general if you ask me, but lots of dudes are obsessed with just burying their whole faces in there. That's been my experience with boyfriends at least. Maybe mine IS SPECIAL HOLY SHIT

>>17550092
No not at all, I've never seen it as pathetic in a bad way. I'm kind of into it too, but more consistently I'd rather be submissive. Depends on my mood. I like being able to boss him around sometimes and metaphorically crush his nuts, but I also like him grabbing me up and putting me in my place. He's the best.

>>17550105
I'm not OP... I was trying to encourage her to spill what it is she's into by telling her my stupid shit. Where is OP?? Your shit is getting derailed man, get back here! You still haven't told us your kinks. Also, I agree with the furry thing, he can fuck right off with any of his judgements haha

>>17550147
Vaginas smell gross. If they are well groomed and cleaned, I'm OK with burying my face in it if I can please someone I love with it.

>>17550147
So you don't mind seeing him balls crushed? Or you like him being a service top, and control from the bottom.

>>17550167
Nope. We switch off depending on our moods. Some days he gets slapped around and dominated by me, other days he chokes me and fucks me like a monster.

I'd honestly only think less of him if he was NEVER willing to be a sub- I see it as kind of pathetic. If he couldn't dare be the vulnerable/submissive one, or his manliness will be in question. That would annoy me. If I'm willing to let you dress me up in some stupid goth schoolgirl cheerleader clown outfit and not take myself that seriously, you should do the same.

>>17550202
That means you are not insecure, and you act like someone mature. You seem like a good couple.

OP here, sorry had to
Work

>>17549971

Aughh.. Im just so embarrassed of it.
Its not freakish, its more cringey. Really cringey. I have a huge..HUGE tickling fetish. And rape. Tickling and rape. Tickling until you piss is a +. I want a guy to worship my feet and love tickling me.

As for keeping it seperate thats fine, ive been doing it for 6 years. But porn isnt cutting it anymore, i have to masturbate 3x a day sometimes.

>>17549976
It sucks honestly. I love him to
Death.

>>17550010
Choking is great too, but he seems to be more of a submissive.. Which i dont mind honestly. But exclusively a sub is somethin I cant stand. I like switching it
Up.

>>17550630
That's actually kind of funny and definitely embarrassing, but I dig it. That's something I kind of find upsetting he won't indulge you in. I can see maybe compromising about the pissing- but I'd feel hurt if I were you.

Once again, it's not the fact he's not into it. He can't help that. It's the fact he's not willing to do it for you, as I'm sure you'd be willing to do shit for him.

>>17550756
We tried anal a couple times for him, and i indulged in toyplay for him. The peeing i get, really, but tickling is..weird. I know its weird! But its not like, shitting myself or throwing up all over.

He even likes me being chubby and i kept a few pounds (after going on a major diet a few years ago and becoming the stick i once was again) because i knew he liked it. I dont get why he cant indulge me??

>>17550756
On the ither hand though, i am way too shy to persist... Im so ashamed of my weird kink. Its the cringiest kink someone can have, and i got stuck with it.

>>17550630
>have a huge..HUGE tickling fetish. And rape. Tickling and rape. Tickling until you piss is a +. I want a guy to worship my feet and love tickling me.
You have no idea how much I wish my gf was into that..

>>17550630
omg TICKLING? nigga that's practically vanilla. I thought you were gonna come at me with inflation or jelly girls or some shit. For christ's sake, there was just a major documentary on tickling fetishists released this year. It's fuckin mainstream. And 90% of chicks have rape fantasies.

Your boyfriend not tickling you is some bullshit man. For the record, being a furry is way weirder.

>>17550777
>>17550786
I coerce my boyfriends to shave Hitler mustaches and fuck noses. You realize how stupid that sounds. Do not be ashamed of the dumb shit you're into haha.

This really bums me out. He might not realize how stupid he's making you feel about your weird kinks, as well as not realize how one-sided this is. I would really work up the courage to tell him. It's not even really a sex thing at this point, it's kind of the principle, if that makes sense. Hypothetically, if he was psychically incapable of participating in your fantasies for some weird reason, my guess is you could easily be fine with that. At the root of it, I think what's really bothering you is his unwillingness to see your stupid kinks as a priority too. I'd really talk to him and maybe try to explain that. You seem like a really good gf.

>>17550814
Jelly girls are 10/10 easy, but i got stuck with a cringey ticking fetish.

>>17550794
I wish my bf were into it.. At least a little.

>>17550845
Thanks anon, you have no idea how much better youre making me feel about this whole ordeal honestly 8(

Youre right too. It is kinda on principle at this point. I just did a lot for him, and he seems willing to do near nothin for me in bed.

>>17550814
All fetishes are on the same level. For you to not liken tickling to inflation seems like you don't respect a fetish for being a fetish. Thats kind of ignorant and you should apologize for your downgrading of the other anons kink.

>>17549865
normie
>likes furries
>is attracted to men

The problem seems to be you and your understanding of fetishes. One you figure out how all of this is linked im sure you'll be able to incorporate each others fetishes together.

I'm not insulting you, im "just sayin'"

Dude I love ticking girls, I didn't even know that was a fetish. That's cute af.

My new fetish is to find a girl with a tickling fetish.

>>17550870
Lol I was into inflation myself a few years ago, that's why it came to mind. Of course all fetishes are "equal" or however you want to put it. Still, some (in popular "normie" perception) are stranger or more uncommon than others. It was OP who insinuated that hers was particularly weird, and I was putting her at ease.

That being said, I don't think I need to apologize for not "respecting" peoples fetishes, and if you're honestly hurt by that, you probably need to go somewhere a little more sensitive than 4chan. Try tumblr :^)

>>17550876
Lol its fine, i dont get insulted.

I dont know, maybe its because i was a furry on deviantart when i was like 14, and really never found it such s big deal. Also i myself am bisexual, so him looking at the same gender really doesnt effect me at all.