I met this guy thought my work about 5 months ago and we started

Do you guys smoke together? Do you not do drugs? I'd just bring up drugs with him. At the end of the day, googling your significant other isn't wrong, its a good call in case they did something crazy.

>>17546849
Why would he bring up baggage from 8 years ago?

It's not a big deal, and if you ask him about it, he'll probably have a story for you if you pretend that it doesn't bother you, and you're act genuinely interested. Otherwise he'll probably just say "Yep, that happened." and leave it at that.

>>17546854
I don't. I used to when I was younger but kind of grew out of it. I don't know if he smokes it, if he does he doesn't do it often because I'm around him a lot

>>17546849
What do you mean, 'what should you do'? Wtf would you do.....?? Maybe actually......talk to him about it?????

That's a pretty long while ago, and I'm guessing you're relatively young- what was he, like 20 when it happened? He probably holds that info back until he trusts someone because they'll freak out. Which honestly, I really don't understand. It's not like it was something violent.

Druggies are always scum in my experience.

>>17546868
Being arrested for pot is horseshit in the first place. Why even bother digging up something so irrelevant. Give him the benefit of the doubt.

It's an offense from eight years ago involving a substance that should be (and will soon be) legal anyway. If this was 1935 and you found out someone used to be a bootlegger, would you hold it against them? I certainly wouldn't.

>>17546849
Lol are you dating Frosty

>>17546868
Then it was in the past like all your slutty misadventures he hasn't gone digging for.

Don't act like you're not more attracted to him now you think he might have gone to jail, roastie swine.

Normally, I'd say it wouldn't matter but 31 lbs is a lot of marijuana. Definitely not your normal stoner who sells drugs to make a buck.

>>17547044
That was my thought. If I found out he was arrested for an ounce or two I would understand that.

31 pounds is i imagine a lot of money. That makes me think he was very involved in drug trafficking to buy or obtain that much marijuana

>>17547059
31 lbs of marijuana is insane. That's over 100 grand worth of pot. He might be a legit criminal and not just a minor drug offender.

>>17547290
yeah. WHICH IS WHY SHE SHOULD ASK HIM ABOUT ITTTTT.

ffs

you're on here hemming and hawing and you just need to fucking talk to him. What kind of person is he NOW? How old was he THEN? This is getting annoying- there's nothing more you can get from this board without talking to him first.

>>17547325
Let's just say for the sake of argument that he was a hardcore criminal who was actually dangerous. Would he tell her if she asked?

>>17547330
Well then she's just fucked. There's nothing she can do other than talk to him at this point, short of hiring a PI.

There's plenty of pussy and groupies available in that world if he's still some kind of kingpin. I doubt he'd bother with OP, especially considering her obvious squeaky-cleanness. Those are the kinds of girls that rat you out to the feds. And it seems he's likely cleaned up his act.

So still- just. talk. to. him.

>>17546849
>31 pounds

That is a fuckton. I know people who do business with dispensaries who dont even deal in quantities that large. But it really depends on how he came to get that amount, but i would be nervous. I have had friends robbed at gunpoint for a few lbs let alone 31 lbs. That is some serious drug dealing shit. To put it into perspective that is roughly 40,000 dollars worth of marijuana. Next level.

>>17547325
He's 29.

I think I'll just ask him what he thinks of marijuana and see if he tells me. If not, then I understand why you wouldn't want to discuss it.


It was 8 years ago, and he has a real job. I doubt if he had 100k in pot laying around he would be working for 40k a year.

>>17547372
The 100k value comes from what it would cost to purchase for individual ozs. But at bulk costs that amount is genuinely worth 30-50k depending on quality, no lie. So he was definitely a hardcore drug dealer at one point.

He got caught, did time and doesnt want to get caught again. Not worth the risk. But dont doubt that he was indeed a serious drug dealer making probably two to three times as much as he is now. I guess potentially he could have just been transporting it, but he was still deep in the game.

>>17547372
So he was 21 when he did this dumb shit. An adult, but young enough to think he's invincible and to not be able to turn down thousands upon thousands of dollars. Understandable.

I think playing these little games as if you don't know his past is stupid though. He'll likely see through your bull. You looked him up, you know, and you can't un-know now. Yes, it's embarrassing, but if you want something with this guy I think the best choice is just be honestttt. Otherwise you'll just end up with more questions than answers, and you'll be right back here saying

"I mentioned pot and he said XYZ. What does it mean??? Should I still date him?!"