Grill here. A few months back another grill in my friend circle, indirectly confessed her admiration for me. It was bordering on confessing her love for me. how she would wait for my texts etc. I was quite drunk, so I didn't want to embarrass her and pretended not acknowledge what she was saying. anyways it got emotional and I ended up talking about my depression and crying (as you do at parties). then she went cold on me when I fell out with her boyfriend and brother over something else. was this female manipulation? I told her way too much and I'm not a sappy person. do you think this is emotional manipulation?
I don't think it was. At least then. She may have contempt against you now and use the information against you. If it was back then, you would have been backstabbed already.
>>17545926
We don't care about your petty catfights you dumb whore.
Your kind isn't welcome on this site, kill yourself you worthless bitch.
If someone is being way too nice then yeah, it probably was total bullshit.
>>17545985
stop being so fkin exclusive u fuckface this is an open site
>>17546241
no it's not
/closed
You were drunk and spouted stupid shit you shouldn't have.
/thread.
>>17545926
>Got told I was idolized
>Was drunk and pretended to ignore it
>Dumped on her
>???
>Fight with her brother and boyfriend
>she's cold
So if you didn't notice, there's kind of a non-sequitur there... I'm a guy, so I'm not privy to all the jumps girls sometimes make (especially young girls. Though my best friend is female, and my girlfriend makes some gigantic ass ones so I'm not totally clueless...), but I feel like you're connecting events that aren't exactly related.
Maybe you ignoring her "confession" and then dumping on her made her lose a little bit of respect/admiration, but even if it did, it sounds like you still hung out after so it wasn't TOO big a deal.
What SOUNDS like the triggering event of why she went cold on you, is your fight with the people who are basically two of the most important men in her life.
I have no idea where the heck you're pulling emotional manipulation from.
>female """"problems"""""
None of this is actually an issue that should bother you