What did I do wrong? Met a cute girl at the bus stop last night, we talked for quite a while and seemed to hit it off pretty well, (she was playing pokemon GO so I springboarded off of that) got her number and texted her later that night- she responds pretty happily and flirtatiously (at least, to me) until I bring up ashton kutcher. She then becomes very cold, and quickly drops that she has a bf. Do you guys think she just really hates Ashton Kutcher.
Our texts. http://imgur.com/a/QdjlD
>>17542754
You didn't do anything wrong. She just has a bf dude
>>17542754
you didnt do anything wrong. she is probably just retarded and didnt realize that you where trying to get into her. who the fuck gets a girl number unless they want to date them
>>17542754
lol dont blame ashton kutcher dude
>at least, to me
yeah to you. She wasn't interested in you physically.
>>17542754
>she has a bf
That should've been like the 2nd thing you asked her.
You have no game.
You're boring. Very boring. And your conversation was going nowhere. Do you usually have success with your texting?
You should've asked her out immediately after her
>just got home T_T
Texting is for short texts and setting dates to meet. Banter and flirting, that's it. Getting to you know each other is for when you actually meet.
Also LMAO at
>I watch movies with my bf
Cold as fuck.
>>17542754
>Do you guys think she just really hates Ashton Kutcher
this is the most hilarious thing I read all day. Like how Elliot Rodger's manifesto turned out to be a dark comedy master piece.
She just has a bf, what did you expect? Anyone who talks to you must be into you and your dick? Fuck out of here r9k.
>>17542754
>What did I do wrong?
Well
>I have a pokemon confession
>I couldn't beat the game you never played
>bringing up the butterfly effect as superstition
>girl tells you she doesn't like movies
>you get her to explain herself then talk about you being super into them
And the grand finale
>she has a bf
In future try asking if they have a boyfriend early on via methods like
"so what does your boyfriend do?"
>>17542754
hahahahahaha this is fucking retarded. good for you for talking to someone at a bus stop though, Butter Fly effect is a shit movie and you don't need to mention ashton kutcher starring in it, he's also a garbage person: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkuNdlclU4w
and it's most likely because you mentioned movies. fuck this thread
>>17542796
>>you have no game
>you're boring
I see this around a lot. How does OP get game? How does he become interesting? Provide examples you twat.
>>17542888
>>17542888
I mean if all of these things are taboo, how does one even have a conversation?
>saying
>things
She's a huge pokemon fan, and had played all of the games, it's not like I was coming out with this obscure stuff out of nowhere.
>>17543006
Dude. The way you said those things makes you look pretty unattractive. Try not to be a huge splerg with women, they're just regular human beings like me, you, and other guys. Learn to talk to them normally.
>>17543013
I did of course make this thread for advice, I'm just clarifying- what was it about the way I phrased that stuff that make it "sperg" tier
>>17542754
Is that Mitski?
>>17543032
yeah
is this just gonna be another thread where the only advice is "dont be a sperg lol you have no game"
>>17543032
>>17543034
who? She looks cute, OP is a faggot btw
What would have been the proper way to text her? (I'm not OP btw)
Should he have just straight away asked to meet somewhere?
>>17543055
OP here, saw her in concert. http://pitchfork.com/artists/32541-mitski/
>>17542992
>spoonfeed me
fuck off
there are plenty of tinder and okcupid threads regularly on r9k and fit and some other boards too, lurk more faggot
>>17543006
texting isnt for making long and deep conversations
>>17543019
its the fact that you brought them up at all
>>17543071
>spoonfeed me
>no
You are literally retarded. Please leave /adv/
>>17543057
He should have asked her what her interests were instead of trying to talk about himself. Always find out about a person you are interested in, you aren't special, you want the other one to feel special. Instead of being like "I fucking love movies hahahahahaha", just ask "hey, I was wondering what kind of things you're interested in?" Don't even say anything specific because you are still using your own bias on this person: just wait for them to speak up, hell them might even say origami or someshit and then ask them more about it, soon if they're interested in you they'll respond with interest in your own interests, you want to make people feel like they are interesting and usually people like talking about things they are interested in, not hearing about other peoples interests until they know the person.
^That was rambled as fuck and im not gonna spellcheck it.
This is like socializing 101 guys come on
>>17543074
what do you expect when you call other people twats you twat
you already got more than you deserve