Approaching suicidal Long story short: I'm a sex addict

>>17540975
>he fell for the marriage meme

Make a Tinder profile before you commit a murder suicide

You're not compatible and your relationship is a mistake

Look at the reasons why she doesn't want sex more (were you here a few nights ago?). Are you doing your share of the house chores WITHOUT having her ask you? Does she feel taken care of? Libido takes a nosedive if women are stressed out or not well rested.

Same thing here with my wife almost, a girl has never given me an orgasm in my life

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>>17541014
Yes that was me. Again thanks for the advice. I paid it forward.

I work, she doesn't. I give massages, write love songs, do nerdy stuff. I have chronic fatigue and pain so it's hard for me to do much more than that.

She cooks and cleans, manages bills, makes the shopping lists, and manages appointments and stuff. Often I help, usually I have to be asked.

I played piano the other night and got laid. Which is 10mins and she's done, I'm too good at giving her an orgasm :-P Then I jack it solo for another 10+ mins before I can cum.

>>17541045

You sound absolutely miserable and are doing too much while getting too little. I think deep down you knew this was a mistake but was in denial trying to stick it through.

Random question but how does a 20 something year old have chronic pain and fatigue?

>>17541014

this, but keep in mind you dont actually have take care of her as much as you have to make her FEEL like youre taking care of her. obviously whatever youre doing right now is not doing that for her, so talk to her about it and see why she doesnt want sex anymore

>>17540975
Sounds like she's fucking some hotter Chad on the side.

How does it feel to be a cuck?

You shouldn't have fallen for the women meme, they're all worthless trash.

>>17541045

Good work with the piano. Sometimes it's breaking out of the monotony of day to day life. The other day I just held her (hair stroking, cuddling) for 30 minutes in the afternoon. She was ready for it after awhile. The rest of your post makes it hard to tell where the problem could be since you both have a lot on your plate (I can see your respect for her when you explain what she does do as a stay at home wife). Maybe play with some toys so she won't hurt her jaw or arms? The magic wand vibrator is amazing for both us, and we got a fleshlight for when she's too tired to have intercourse but she still wants to bring me fulfillment.

Have you talked about how unhappy you are in the sexual aspect of the relationship? Honestly, it's one of the key factors to a successful marriage and it's not fair for you.

>>17541097
I assume you're the same awesome anon that's been with me all along.

We've talked about it. I tend to blame myself and say Im addicted. She offers to do whatever she can, but at the same time, really doesn't offer a single thing. She'll offer to participate in my masturbation but as i listed earlier, she really just can't. I've told her that I want her to participate every single time but I'll rarely ask because I just don't like to have to ask. She'll offer about 1 out of 10 times.

>>17540975
Sounds like she might be unsatisfied somewhere with herself. She claims to be a nympho but can't tell if she said that to satisfy you in a way or her sex drive has been low.

She may not have been doing much to sexually please you but there might be things you haven't done for her to want to do that in return. Being a housewife isn't all that fun. It can get depressing and boring.

I'd say definitely stimulate her mind a bit more. Go out more. Talk to her, ask her what's on her mind. Don't forget to still date her. Get an nice hotel in a nearby city for a change of atmosphere. Get some toys that both of you can enjoy. Ask about positions she feels comfortable with. Don't push it, could make your spouse more frustrated with herself and you. She's been making excuses for herself but in reality I think she can't admit something to herself. I'm sure she wants to be happy with you. Give her an emotional connection even if she won't return the emotion some days, be patient. Marriage can get like that but don't give up until you've done and tried everything. I'm sure she'll come around.

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>>17541257

You're awesome, thank you.

Saved.

>>17540975
>>17541045
>She said she was a nympho
>never wants sex
>no blowjobs, handjobs, titjobs, etc
>disgusted at the sight of cum
Man, you got screwed, i feel fucking bad for you.
And she ain't perfect, she lied to about a very important aspect of a relationship.

You could do as the Romans did: they didn't consider visiting prostitutes to be cheating since it was just sex.

Or could do the more modern thing and go see a sex therapist. These problems are common and they've got a lot of experience fixing them.

My advice to you is this:
Communication, honesty, and a lot of porn.
Yes, you heard me right. Porn.
If you guys are the people to allow yourselves to succumb to such desires, (God doesn't care, seriously. God wants us to be happy, that's literally all he cares about. Doesn't care about anything like telling us to suppress the desires that he himself made.) The reason for this, is that it will perhaps open you guys up to more and more sexual interactions with each other, as well as more experimentation.

Another thing, I would like to mention, is that you guys should perhaps seek counseling, or even meditate. You would be surprised what you will discover about yourselves when doing so. You both sound like you are faithful to each other, and she has actual legitimate reasons to not be able to help you with your desires.. Although, there is one thing that must be asked. "How is your emotional connection with each other?", is the question I wish to ask. Have you been noticing a slight distance with each other? If so, this could be why. Having an incredibly strong bond with each other, exploring new hobbies, ect, can help you both significantly I am suspecting.

You need to comfort her. With the issues she has, it would not be surprising if she does indeed have issues with herself like others have stated here. Sorry if I seem incoherent or rambled.


One final note, only seek counseling in matters of extremity.

>>17540975
Definitely sounds like a cheating case.
Cut your losses before it's too late OP.