Okay, I've made a thread of this already. But I'm going

>>17539481
Does she have herpes?

To put it into perspective roughly 3/4 of people have herpes. You could even have it yourself already and not know it. Have you had a cold sore before? Yes? Welcome to the club. And herpes is really not a big deal at all, especially compared to a child and/or abortion. And most of the time symptoms are never present in people.

http://projectaccept.org/straight-dope-herpes-statistics/

She has type 2, she takes suppressants 3 times a day and hasn't had an outbreak in 2 years.

>>17539559

Okay....move on. Jerk off instead. I am dead serious anon. Don't go for it. Yes you are horny and tits and pussy look enticing but the thought of taking medication to suppress your virus for the rest of your life is more then enough to say no.

>>17539565
I'm not thinking with my dick here. I have feelings for her. But I'm weighing if those feelings are worth a lifetime of boils, medication, and possible failed future relationships. I guess I answered my own question. I do hate to hurt her, but I can't go through with a relationship.

>>17539595

Good man, she will understand. She isn't new to the dating scene and you being upfront is a lot better then beating around the bush.

Genital herpes? You should consider whether or not you love and expect a future enough with them to get herpes, and make sure it is not HPV. The kid? That's a lifestyle choice. Personally, I can't afford to take care of a child of my own, let alone someone elses. You have to decide in your own, with as much wisdom as possible, if the costs are worth it. Consider those things costs, not risks. Murphy's law states that you'll get infected for sure.