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Hey everyone,
I've been seeing this girl on and off for a long time.
Recently we have been on for almost a year. She has a drinking problem, and when she would get shit faced she would text other dudes. I caught her, and then we decided to we needed sometime to think about our choices. If we're making the right choice having a relationship. We decided to stay exclusive while we take time to think about it.
I texted her today and she says since she has not been with me she is a lot less stressed out. Shes avoiding having conversations with me. She says she loves me, and I'm the only person she cares about. However she seems like shes doesn't want to continue on making this work. She keeps telling me "It shouldn't be this hard".
Just looking for some advice, on what I should do. I want to make it work. Is there anything I can do? What should I do?
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Dude fucking cut ties with her. If she thinks things are "too hard" than she needs a re-evaluation of how life works and a re-evaluation of if alcohol is even worth it. This bitch is delusional you need to see a different girl
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>>17537626
Bump. Anyone else got advise?
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>>17537626
Try to have a real conversation about why it is hard and why she feels stressed around you. We can't answer that for you. Remember that you have to commit yourself to an HONEST conversation.
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>>17537733
This helps. I think she has a problem being honest with me though.
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>>17537735
You should bring that up to her directly, and talk about how it makes you feel.
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>on and off
>gets drunk
>texts other guys
>says you stress her out
>can't articulate a coherent thought
She sounds like my worst dating nightmare. How do you trust her on any level? Dude, just break up and call it a day. I'm getting nervous just reading that shit
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>>17537957
I'm just obsessed with her for some reason. I just want her back so bad, but I know I can't keep this going.
I asked her the night before I found the shit on her phone, and she was like "I stopped drinking so much because I care about this relationship and I know what it has done." - then the next day she gets shit faced. Since we've been on our own for a bit, she been with her friends every night drinking it seems.
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>>17538090
Man I'd just send her a text and say "hey this isn't working, good luck, bye" and try not to contact her again.
The obsession with go away eventually
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