>former neet
>mum threatens to kill me if I don't get my shit together
>attempt to go to a driving school, start walking groceries to the house, clean more often, etc
>gets agitated that I'm not doing things the way she likes and then threatens to kill me again
>doings things her way is to mindlessly rely on family, which just leads to more trouble
>now 19 and can't drive or get a job due to this
How do you deal with a violent, controlling family
>>17537395
>How do you deal with a violent, controlling family
You leave it. Any way that you can.
>>17537395
>also 19
>first job laid me off three days ago
>can't drive and can only afford one month of rent
I was gonna ask /adv/ to see if anyone knows how to work from home as a beginner, because I need cash but I have no car to get it.
>>17537427
How'd you get employed? I've just been firing out applications online so far.
>>17537407
you sound like you speak from experience
>>17537567
Some. I stayed with my shitty family for way too long. Always regretted staying as long as I did, I've had to work through a lot of bullshit in the years after that I think I could've avoided if I left earlier.
I know that it's not that easy though, you feel trapped. Only place you've ever known is that home, no job, no prospects lined up. Only people to support you are the same crazies that make your life such a hell.
But there is always a way out, if you're desperate enough. Stay strong anon.
>>17537395
If the family takes away from your health and peace of mind this way, it cancels out their benevolent actions of providing food and shelter.
Leave. However stay motivated to improve because YOU want it, and not because someone threatened to kill you. Find a reason that gets you hyped got change, and find your own path.